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Tuesday, June 28, 2011

How to Have An Attractive and Winning Personality

Women of so-called "personality" often charm us because they approach 'nearer' than the average pretty woman does (however, the beautiful charmer may become the heroine of every man's unrealizable desire!)

Women with an attractive or winning personality are the women you feel irresistibly inclined to look at; the result being some sort of positive emotional effect that they 'stir up' within us.


The effect could be feelings of admiration, curiosity, or possibly, reverence. And some women have had so much "personality" and charm, that they've affected people like music, or like the pictures that speak to us.

In its subjective phase, personality is simply an extension of the mental/emotional self to relationships with other human beings. In its objective phase, it's the self which is observed by others.


Therefore, lovely, a woman's personality is the body of her subjective SOCIAL self - and the means by which her inner social self moves into her environment.

Health, vitality, personal appearance, charm, poise, cheerfulness, excitement, speech, laughter, silence.... all of these are elements of an attractive or winning personality.


Furthermore, the acquirement of a "charismatic" or "magnetic" personality is an ambition of many ideal women. In all things we must aim to IMPROVE on nature, dove, as ideal women!


Our attitudes, our manners, and our arts of convening or coming together, are part and parcel of this self-improvement.

Furthermore, an "attractive," "winning," "charismatic" or "magnetic" personality is largely a matter of;


Good looks and grooming.


A good wardrobe.

A sunny, positive and somewhat outgoing personality.


Good manners.


Being an interesting person.

Poise.


Charm and charisma.


A passion and excitement for life.


Health and vitality.


However lovely, good looks, grooming and wardrobe, can't be had without good TASTE. Moreover, good looks can't really be had without 'good thinking,' and good manners can't be had without 'good feeling!'


Now, the fundamental rule for acquiring an attractive and winning personality is;


Use to the utmost your good taste and discernment, your capacity for good thinking and feeling, and according to your standards of what's IDEAL :-)


However, doll, if we want to cultivate such a seductive personality, we must also practice cultivating and using the elements of which it's composed;


Personal appearance - a woman's personal appearance must suggest a personality of beauty
The Art of Beautification for Seductresses femininity and substance, as well as style, flair and taste.

That means that we need to be CAREFUL in choosing our attire, discerning, and avoiding like the plague falling victim to 'vulgar chic.'


Vulgar chic is quite a trashy and undesirable look for women, and a cross between traditional femininity and pornography (but more on the side of pornography) - not an ideal look for a woman.


Therefore, avoid wearing;


Too much makeup.


Really low waisted jeans (with your 'muffin top' on display.)


Tops that fully expose your stomach.


T-shirts and accessories with the Playboy bunny logo on them (or similar erotic emblems.)


Short 'school girl' styles of skirts (these should be reserved for bedroom games only *wink.*)


Too many rhinestones.


Too much jewelry.


The large platform heeled shoes that strippers wear.


Ripped/fishnet tights (not a classy look!)


Ugg boots....


Carriage - carriage is basically your personal BEARING, and the way you carry yourself. Just as in grooming, wardrobe and appearance, a woman should have the appearance of self-respect, confidence and success, so that in her bearing and address, she'll portray an air of being sophisticated, elegant and 'well-bred.'


To have a good carriage, as well as a good bearing and address, the number one rule is to show that you have faith in yourself, and to act as if you're CONFIDENT. In fact, dove, you should be so comfortable in your own skin that it appears unusual, but natural (it will be agreed to!)


**Beware of appearing to be arrogant or condescending.

The number two rule of having a good carriage is to ensure that you have a perfect posture and carry yourself like a QUEEN.


Social charm
Charm Warfare – The Art of Charm for Seductresses which was once the prerogative of queens and courtesans and royal mistresses, must be wielded by the MODERN woman as well. For today, this sort of charm is the smile on the face of feminine power.

There's power to be experienced in business and personal life that's just as great as it was in the former courts of queens! Charm basically embraces all the socially desirable characteristics - such as warmth, hospitality, and courtesy.

The smoothness, the deference, and the graceful gestures of charming individuals is the origin of all social manners, ideals and socially acceptable conduct.


Tact - tact is the mental perception, or innate sense, of what's BEST to say or do in any situation - in order to produce in others the desired effect without causing offense. Moreover, using tact in relationships is the means by which friction is reduced to a minimum.


The principle of tact is; since we're naturally averse to acting under COMPULSION, it's better to be led indirectly to feel the inclination ourselves. And therefore, in doing what we ourselves have chosen to do, there's no real injury to our sense of pride.


Furthermore, dove, tact, is a persuasive and indirect tool that modern seductresses use with men - for the accomplishment of an end. And a far superior tactic than nagging or direct commanding.


Any seductress worth her salt knows that ;-)

Interest - interest in this particular sense is about creating interest in yourself by BEING interesting. Moreover, an interesting woman has passions, hobbies and interests besides her work and her relationship.

When she talks, she's ANIMATED, alive, and her her eyes light up in that mysterious and irresistible way. And her feminine energy and passion just seem to emanate from her core.

Audacity - audacity is similar to BOLDNESS, and the value of courage or daring. It seems to be the result of a special outlook on life too, and many royal mistresses, courtesans and seductresses had the outlook of audacity :-)


In addition, the successful modern women in this world have this particular viewpoint, and will know what they want, and get it for themselves (not waiting for someone ELSE to offer it to them.)


Become more audacious, lovely! It not only makes for success in business, but success in personal life. And an audacious woman may appropriate a thing as a mere matter of course, and as go for it as nonchalantly as if it had been ordained that she should have it *giggles.*


Remember, possession is nine points of the law, and when someone's DEMEANOR suggests that they're acting within their rights, we tend to acquiesce. We also take others at their own valuation - at least until we've had time to form an estimate for ourselves.


In short, personality is the "outward and visible" sign of an inner charm, poise, confidence, and grace. And we've now leaned what some of the qualities
of an attractive and winning personality are, that in their outward expression denote a personality that people are naturally drawn to.

However, dove, personality isn't something that, like a DRESS, can put on for an occasion. It should be a permanent, natural, and inherent part of yourself.


Furthermore, an attractive and winning personality comes from continuous right living, intelligent thinking, and the cultivation of the emotions and instincts that are conducive to the social and altruistic things in life - rather than to just selfish well-being.


The practice of many of the world's great ladies and enchantresses was to cut and train their personalities to one social pattern or another, in accordance with one's own bent.

They'd make the most of the ideal attributes of character too; integrity, sincerity, fortitude, persistence, self-assurance and so on.


P.S; to cultivate a an attractive and winning personality, I suggest you read Dale Carnegie's; "How to win friends and influence people." This classic book also shows you how to become more interesting by talking to people about their favorite topic - themselves!


Anyhow dove, I do hope you enjoyed my post; 'How to Have An Attractive and Winning Personality.'

Much love,
Melina xx

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Monday, June 20, 2011

Women of Excellence, Femininity and Charm

"Once or twice in a life-time we are permitted to enjoy the charm of noble manners in the presence of a man or woman who have no bar in their nature, but whose character emanates freely in their word and gesture.

A beautiful form is better than a beautiful face; a beautiful behavior is better than a beautiful form; it gives a higher pleasure than statues or pictures. It is the finest of the fine arts."

There's a wonderful attribute of personality which belongs to the most feminine, ideal and SEDUCTIVE women - just as color and fragrance belongs to the flower, and, light and color belongs to the jewel. This may be referred to as "feminine charm."


Feminine charm is an ART, dove, but it also suggests magic. It could even be seen as a type of mental sorcery and warfare (Madame Recamier was a woman who was particularly good at this type of sorcery and warfare :-))

The word "charm" in its most basic sense, may be taken to cover the art of general social adjustment, ranging from the the simplest of common courtesies to the highest beauty of ceremony.

The Japanese geisha have mastered the delightful art of charm Charm Warfare – The Art of Charm for Seductresses , and have been mastering it for centuries. And the ever-increasing complexity and demands of modern society puts an ever-increasing PREMIUM on a woman's social behavior.

**Nevertheless, you only have to look at the younger women of today to start wondering if the breed of charming, feminine and well-mannered girls will soon be EXTINCT. I've personally noticed too, that many teenage girls are dressing more like under-age hookers than delightfully feminine enchantresses.

In addition, just by listening to them, you'd think that some of them came from pigsties, and that their habits must be as vulgar as their conversation!

Even grown women today can be as rude, crude, slovenly and ANTI-SEDUCTIVE. However, there's another trait that makes a woman anti-seductive, but often without her realizing it.... snobbishness (a hallmark of the unsure.)

Only true breeding and personal cultivation consists in avoiding all forms of anti-seductive behavior, and attending to the ABC's of personal excellence, femininity and charm with care. And with a regard for the sensibilities of others, and a concern for the DIGNITY of one's self!

Furthermore lovely, QUALITY men judge women by similar standards, or the lack thereof. For example, a man will judge a woman by;

The way she dresses (and how much skin she chooses to bare in public.)

The way she speaks, and whether she refrains from cussing/swearing and vulgarity.

How feminine she is in her behavior.

How poised, graceful and lady-like she is.

How warm, charming, gracious and hospitable she is.

How much substance and propriety she portrays.

How much value she appears to offer.

The standards she appears to have.

Surely each of us has something to recommend to each other, and to quality men, besides the clothes we wear, the furniture we own or the cars we drive? And looking around us lovely, I'm sure you'll agree with me that it's necessary to emphasize (again and again,) the ABC's of personal excellence, femininity and charm!

In ancient Greece, if a hetaera (a Grecian courtesan,) was feminine and beautiful she was deified, if charming she was adored. They were indeed women of excellence as far as cultivating one's intellect and feminine charms were concerned.

Furthermore, the hetaera learned that the rightful path in life consisted in passing from beautiful manners to beautiful thoughts, from beautiful thoughts to beautiful aspirations, from beautiful aspirations to beautiful meditations - which was considered "beauty supreme."
It was Aspasia (a Milesian woman and hetaera who became famous for her involvement with the Athenian statesman Pericle,) who's beauty first attracted Pericles. But she was more than just a beauty, she was a woman of excellence, charm and spirituelle!

Aspasia was said to have advised Pericles concerning the conduct of the state, and even to have written some of his best speeches.

**Remember, beauty does attract a man, cupcake, but only charm and graciousness and EXCELLENCE can detain.

Gifted and accomplished, the Greek hetaera were the only women with whom an enlightened Athenian male could converse. Generally, their conversations were with the artists, philosophers and the intelligentsia of their city.

Their distinction from other women was extreme. Plato had one of them for muse. Sophocles another. And they devoted themselves to the study of every feminine art that contributed toward being charming, delightful and fascinating.

The hetaera were superior to other women in more ways than one. Like the Venetian and French courtesans, they were women of excellence, as well as the intellectual EQUALS of men.

The men of Athens would sometimes persuade their wives to come to Aspasia's house and listen to her arguments. This says a lot dove, about the FASCINATION of Aspasia, an ancient Greek hetaera, and that respectable wives actually came to her house to hear what she had to say.

Cleopatra, semi-Greek, and a daughter of the Ptolomies, had the 'killer charm' of the hetaera, as well as of the all the seductress women of history. To aptitudes natural and great, she added a varied assortment of feminine accomplishments.

It's said that Cleopatra could talk to any one in any tongue. Admittedly, that was probably an exaggeration. But, she certainly was an ambitious woman, as well as lettered, charming, feminine, seductive....

Furthermore, Cleopatra was a masterful SEDUCTRESS and siren The Art of Being a Siren A match and fantasy for any man.

A woman of excellence never fails to appreciate and cultivate these, and similar aptitudes. She's the woman who looks up to the great ladies The World's Great Ladies, Advanced Femmes and Femi...
, and to the charming, the well-mannered and to the "lovely."

And to the women who've lifted themselves up from the masses, with personal and vocational achievementS, to move across a stage of their OWN own setting (while other women would never think of interesting themselves in such matters, concerning themselves merely with shallow, trivial things.)

Furthermore, the most feminine and seductive women are IMPECCABLE, in their personal presentation The Art of Beautification for Seductresses
, in their womanliness, in their behavior.... And are impressed by the simple niceties of life; cleanliness and health; beauty and elegance; and the graceful accoutrements of life.

This is the first rung on the ladder for those who seek to climb out of the "primordial ooze," dove, and to stand out from the sea of mundane, bimbofied and defeminized women!

It's true that the world is full of JEALOUS, envious and competitive woman. The more feminine and seductive you are, the more witty, charming and radiant, and the more male attention and attraction you create, the more you'll meet with envy and jealousy.

Even with antagonism.

Yet for every social and feminine art YOU and your kind master, you get a possible host of NEW, nicer and better friends ;-)

In every big city, in every small town, there's the "mold breakers" and "Advanced Femmes" on the tree of womanhood. These are also the women who've been trained by their mothers and grandmothers, aunties and/or feminine role-models to be feminine, graceful and elegant - in everything they do!

Furthermore, with their gifts of charm, persuasion and influence, women of excellence, femininity and charm can attract the very BEST men of their generation, polishing them and causing them to make the most of themselves as men.

What the hetaera, geisha and courtesans did for older societies (in the way of contributing intellectually etc,) the young (and not so young) women of excellence, femininity and charm can do for this one. There can also be a NEW, different breed of women, as well as new models and expositions of femininity Feminissima - School of Feminine Arts

And all very empowered and interesting *smile.*

Anyhow cupcake, I do hope you enjoyed my article; 'Women of Excellence, Femininity and Charm!'
Much love,
Melina xxx

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Saturday, April 2, 2011

Some Rules of a Seductive Woman

Every feminine and seductive woman wants happiness and fulfillment in her relationship, resulting in happy and fulfilling marriage. A lonely spinster life can be a pretty grey affair.

Even worse is a make-shift, patched-up or loveless marriage where two people just muddle through somehow!

A seductive woman must get her man with all the powers of femininity and attraction she has at her command. By using her common sense and intelligence too. And she does.

However, men don't want to be eternally vamped. Sometimes, they just want to be comfortable, to relax. They like to be babied and coddled, and waited on occasionally too.

They want a good listener and they love to laugh. And believe me lovely, when I tell you that a sense of humor is just as important as sex-appeal, it's true.

A seductive woman uses her female intuition to tell her when exerting her feminine charms and enticements is good - and when it isn't. And forget the idea that because you're a feminine woman, that you're the one that should be waited on all the time.

Do make an effort for your man.

Don't slacken up on your feminine charms,
your self-beautification, or the social niceties after you're married. A seductive woman thinks it's only natural to go put on a dress at dinner, to keep flowers in the house, to surround herself with beauty. With HER as the centerpiece.

There are devoted wives who fit the courtesan archetype; always charming, stimulating and comforting their husbands. There are faithful girlfriends who are "seductresses;" always fascinating, enchanting and captivating their boyfriends!

A seductive woman does all of that.

I'll also add; it's not necessary to transgress certain moral customs to be a "courtesan" or "seductress." It's only role-playing, and these terms may accurately be applied to monogamous, married women with IRREPROACHABLE morals. And that's what I base my 'Feminissima' philosophy on.

I think it's only natural as a feminine and seductive woman to fit a certain type - as well expect a man to help you on and off with your coat, to hold your chair as you sit at the table, to say please and thank you, and will you pass the salt, darling - instead of doing a boarding-house reach across the table.

Of course dove, these little things don't have to be carried to extremes and of course, dressing nicely for dinner and flowers in the house shouldn't come before the practical necessities. But as a feminine and seductive woman, keep up, as much as you can, the nicer things of life - and your feminine behavior!

Of course, your physical appearance has a fair bit to do with being a seductive woman, but there are women whose appearances, as well as figures, have seemingly been lost permanently. Their badly styled hair fails to be their ‘crowning glory,’ their clothes are terribly out of fashion (or just thrown on,) and their faces are without a speck of make-up.

What a waste of femininity.

Now, when I say that your physical appearance has a fair bit to do with
being a feminine and seductive woman, don’t think that you have to be a an eight or ten in looks, or wear designer clothes to fit the bill. No, no dove! As long as you're feminine, and dress femininely - and have a distinctive attitude and personality - in spite of any physical defects- you can fit the bill.

When two strong personalities meet, fireworks are almost inevitable. Take it from me, a seductive woman, who's adept at understanding male psychology - and influencing - will give the man the upper hand - at least in the small matters. And which would you rather, let your man have his way occasionally, or lose him?

In addition, you don't need to take everything from a man. On the other hand, I've seen a 'too nice' wife completely dominated by a male brute of a husband (some seem to thrive on it.) And just because her husband is the provider, he takes everything from her - up to and including the squelching of her personality.

Don't be Patsy with any man lovely. It's never worth it.

Another rule of a seductive woman, don't try to change or remodel your man in any way, shape or form! You knew what he was like before you married him, or should have. Leave him be, except for minor alterations, if you must. You can also go about these things in an INDIRECT sort of way.

The greatest woman among the courtesans, geisha ande the hetaera was the woman who was most skilled in the art of drawing men out and influencing them- in a subtle and indirect sort of way.

The most excellent and seductive women in the history were the women whom men had most cause to remember.

I do hope you enjoyed my article; 'Some Rules of a Seductive Woman!'

Much Love,
Melina xxx

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Friday, April 1, 2011

A French Woman’s Secret - and Key to Real and Lasting Love


A French Woman’s Secret –

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To render themselves beautiful and admirable, the French Courtesans of history made the most of their resources. Whatever their station, they always mingled with it something of the ideal, and turned it to the glory of their sex.

In the material universe, it's a French woman's duty to possess what pleases men; and the quest of the ideal is of much less importance than the skillful dressing of the hook.

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Thursday, March 31, 2011

The Art and Power of Mystique - for Seductresses

The Art and Power of Mystique
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“The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and science” - Albert Einstein"

If you do not declare yourself immediately, you arouse expectation.... Mix a little mystery with everything, and the very mystery stirs up veneration. And when you explain, be not too explicit.... In this manner you imitate the Divine way when you cause men to wonder and watch." Baltasar Gracian, 1601-1658

This is the only course of its kind that will teach you everything you need to know on how to cultivate feminine mystique and on how to be mysterious in a relationship. This is one of the 'Ars Amatoria' weapons of the courtesans, the geisha and the great seductresses of history!

Play-writers and, essayists from the past had a rather complimentary attitude towards mysterious women. To these men, every woman was supposed to be 'playing a part behind a mask,' and they were always investigating woman as an enchanting and unfathomable mystery.

There was also an extravagantly complimentary view taken by the troubadours and poets, that was based upon the notion that woman was a fascinating and unexplainable being.

Men adore mysterious women and their mysterious ways- because feminine mystique always excites and enchants them!

It's a well known fact that the more of an 'open book' you are - the less alluring and captivating you appear to the opposite sex.

When women started to adopt the idea of being a mysterious woman is uncertain. However, it still has a very practical and profound bearing on life today, as well as on the women in it!

In a world growing increasingly familiar, what seems mysterious and enigmatic will instantly draw attention. Especially when it comes to today's dating/relationship arena.

Many men tend to rate the average woman in the same categories, little self-control, easy to get, not enough of a challenge, boring.... So anything a woman can do to build suspense, and distance herself from this group of predictable women stands to get her noticed.

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This course will show you how to be a mysterious woman - and to really keep a man really guessing, intrigued and on his toes.

Increasing the mystery = an increase in a man's passion!

A woman who has an illusive and mysterious air around her attracts men to her like bees to honey.

Men have LOVED - and will always love - mysterious women!

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