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Should a Woman Tell?

7:34 PM ayionk No comments

In the headstrong folly of youth many women took a step down the 'primrose path,' then repented of their mistakes, and turned their back on them.

In addition, a woman may have washed the slate (with her tears of remorse,) and had the courage to rebuild her life in a place where her early escapades are unknown.

Then, LOVE comes to her. A good man offers her marriage (and a respectable place in society.) Therefore, the question she often asks herself is; “should a woman tell? Should I tell him the story of my life before I marry him?"

Should a woman TELL a man all the details of her past, dove? What do you think?

In my mind the question of what’s right in this situation doesn’t really enter into the matter unless the man shall bare his soul too (like a “pre-matrimonial confessional.”)

However, that being said, I also believe that there’s no REAL reason why a man or a woman should tell every detail of their past, or of every time that they strayed off of the straight and narrow path!

Why would that be necessary?

It's true that a couple who know the worst of each other before they marry would start out their life together on a foundation of honest understanding. But nobody could claim that it would INCREASE their esteem or affection for each other.

On the contrary, they would have probably swept away every illusion (it's always ideal to have the air of a mysterious woman The Art of Mystique - for Seductresses,) and possibly, the prior faith in each other.

**And perhaps they've also now called into being a 'ghost' of the past that they can’t possibly banish, and that will forever stand between them.

MEN have have the wisdom to perceive this. They realize that what a woman doesn't know doesn't hurt her (while the thing that a woman knows she worries herself to death over!)

Moreover, FEW men are foolish enough to give a woman a blow-by-blow account of their past lives with which a woman can torture herself over, and him. In fact, cupcake, a man usually draws a discreet veil over episodes that are best forgotten, and deals only in generalities when referring to his bachelor days.

Smart women are sensible enough to let it go at that! Besides, what woman would really want her man to tell her things that would STAB her every time she thought of them in the future, and that would eat like a canker into her memory?

In addition, it’s only when the case is reversed, and when it's the woman who has a blot on her past, that she wonders if it's the right thing, the honorable thing, to tell the man who wants to marry her about it.

Of course, a woman often finds herself bound in this, by the double code of morals, which makes one standard for the woman and another standard for the man. And rather humorously, makes a husband feel that he’s been exceedingly let down if he discovers that his wife has a past that matches his own.

Therefore, because a woman becomes afraid that in future years a husband may find out about her past life (or is driven by her conscience, or by the need for relief in sharing the burden with another,) the woman nearly always tells everything to the man before marriage.

Sometimes it drives the man away from her. But sometimes the man loves the woman enough to marry her, in spite of her revelations.

However, while a man may forgive a woman, he never forgets, dove. And he’s often haunted by the memories of what she's revealed.

Moreover, the man may never be able to fully trust the woman again, and never wholly BELIEVE in her again.

A man also has to be a bigger-souled man than most men if he doesn’t reproach her with her past when they argue, and use it as a 'whip' to scourge her with when he’s angry with her.

So, should a woman tell, dove?

Of course, when a man's or a woman's past life has in it some sinister truth or curse that will inevitably reach out and lay a hand on the future of the one he or she marries, and any possible children they may have, he or she is bound by honor to TELL the other about it.

However, when there’s nothing of this kind, nothing but a youthful folly, a mistake, a blunder in the dark, or a few errors in judgement bitterly repented of and lived down, it seems to me WISER to wash the slate clean, and to make a fresh start *smile.*

What YOU have done in the past, lovely, doesn’t matter so much as what you’re doing now, and what you’re going to do!

And it often happens that because a man or a woman has stumbled in the past, they walk more carefully than others among the pitfalls of life.

Furthermore, out of the sorrows and repentance for a woman's past mistakes, she often experiences a compassion, a tenderness and an understanding that makes her a BETTER woman than the vast majority who’ve lived ‘perfect’ lives.

The brave soul keeps its own secrets, and takes its own punishment in silence. It also takes a strong woman to keep from blabbing, and it never PAYS any woman to tell anything that she doesn't wish the world to know.

Anyhow, cupcake, I do hope you found my post 'Should a Woman Tell?' helpful!

Much love,

Melina xx

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Bad Boy Syndrome; Why Some Women are Drawn to Bad Boys and How to Avoid the Trap

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It's been the subject of many bad romance movies, trashy romance novels and perhaps countless women's diaries - Bad Boy Syndrome. The tendency to be attracted to the boys your mother warned you about!

The fact that some women are indeed attracted to men they know are likely to hurt them was made official by Harlequin publishers in their survey of nearly 1,000 U.S.women. They found that;

* 21 percent of women 35 and older would rather take a chance with a bad boy than date someone slow and steady.

* 31 percent of women with children younger than 18 would take a chance with a bad boy (compared with 16 percent of women without children.)

Anecdotally, at least, many say the reason bad boys are so attractive is their outward shows of confidence, independence and masculinity, which many women find desirable. At least one study has also proven that ovulating women say dominant men smell better, which may suggest that preferring a dominant, bad-boy type may have something to do with producing healthy, strong offspring.

Furthermore, bad boy syndrome could be popular because dating a bad boy can give a woman a taste of the riskier side of life, without actually having to delve in too deeply herself. In that way it’s a falsely “safe” way to take a risk. No matter what the reason, of course, being attracted to a bad boy is only a “bad” thing if it drives you to be hurt in the end.

Hale Dwoskin, CEO and Director of Training of Sedona Training Associates says; “Women and men are often attracted to the people that they know intellectually are not right for them. We allow our emotions, based on past experiences, to dictate our responses. This happens partially because we say to ourselves, ‘I will never date this type of person again.....’

Yet the mind can only create what you picture and it cannot picture never, not or don’t. So when you are saying to yourself ‘I’ll never do this again,’ your mind pictures you doing it again and again.”

Furthermore, people are creatures of habit, and if you’re used to dating a certain type of person, chances are you’ll gravitate toward that type again. “We tend to cling to the familiar rather than open ourselves to something new, based on a false sense of security,” Dwoskin says.

“Lastly, if we don’t feel like we are enough within ourselves, we attract partners who reflect that back to us.”

How to Break the “Bad Boy Syndrome” Cycle

Most women would describe the typical “bad boy” as having confidence that borders on cockiness, arrogance or machismo. Yet, these are far from the qualities that most women would say they are looking for in a long-term partner.

Harlequin's international survey actually found that honor goes to sense of humor, for both men and women. So, if you know you are someone who has bad boy syndrome - who has a tendency to be attracted to men that are not looking out for your best interests - how do you break the cycle?

Get to know the principles of The Sedona Method, and use them to release, a LOT.

“The best way to break this cycle is to release,” Dwoskin says. “Release your past hurts and disappointments. Release your negative expectations. And release any feelings that are telling you that you are not enough or can't have the right partner for you.”

As you release, you'll find that you don't need any certain type of mate, you are simply whole and free as you are. From there, you'll be able to let go of the insecurities and past expectations that have been leading you to choose the wrong type of person for you.

“This will naturally allow you to attract Mr. or Mrs. Right,” Dwoskin says.

Best of all, the more you learn to let go, the more self-confidence you’ll feel and the easier, and more fun, dating will be. You will also become more in-tune with who YOU are, and that is ultimately what most women want.

The Harlequin survey found that only 3 percent of women felt that finding "Mr. Right" was more important than finding themselves.

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Much love, Melina xxx

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How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You Within Minutes

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How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You Within Minutes' is a special labor of love from me. However dove, when you first saw this title, you may have thought I was talking out of my hat! I've also met people who are completely adamant that you can't make ANYONE fall in love with you - even in a whole lifetime if they're just not interested.

However, aren’t there men and women who believe in 'love at first sight?'

My ultimate intention with this program is to help make men fall in love with you, and in such a way that your chosen man becomes a constructive force in your life. Love's something that can not only give you strength if you find it with the right man, but a real sense of JOY.

In this course, you're going to see a usually little talked about reality of love…. the fact that you CAN make any man fall in love with you as soon as you want him to!! Of course, there are things a girl must do - and she must be willing to put in the required effort. Perhaps she'll need to make some adjustments within herself as well.

If your current attitude and demeanor isn’t giving you the things you want, in this case, making a man fall in love with you, wouldn’t it be advisable to make alterations? To learn the secrets of making men fall in love with you and to improve?

After all doll, at the end of the line, you can end up being a totally different and better version of yourself…. a woman whom men can't wait to fall in LOVE with!

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The Seductive Mindset of a Seductress

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Women weren’t born “seductresses” dove, and only a few are able to capitalize on their feminine attributes and become a truly seductive and enchanting woman.

See the definition of seductress here, in case you haven't already; What is a Seductress?

In addition, it takes a wily mind and considerable talent and confidence to become a successful seductress. When it happens, a man can become so overcome by you and vulnerable, that he’ll promise you the heaven and the earth - and all things in between!

Some women are so irresistible and seductive - without any conscious effort in their thoughts and behavior. They’re usually the ones who developed their seductiveness at a fairly young age, and found out quite accidentally that they could manipulate boys just with a coquettish look.

Then, in the years to come, they went on to fully develop their powers of seduction and feminine enchantment.

The idea of being irresistible and seductive to men comes from the core being of a woman - a FEMININE and sensual woman. However cupcakes, some women are not feminine or sensual at all, even though they possess the potential to be that way, somewhere, deep down in their souls.

On the other hand, some women do manage to tap into and UNLEASH their their latent femininity and sensuality, and to explore their inner cores. And in the process, projecting a new sense of womanliness, of voluptuousness, of seductiveness ….

There are a few women who attempt to be sensual and seductive by wearing overly revealing clothes. But sensuality and seductiveness is never about the things that we wear or show to the outside world. It’s about the way we feel inside; an attitude and a seductive MINDSET.

Modern seductresses have come to grips with that, as well as their doubts and indecision, and are confident that they’re on an equal footing with their husbands - and can pursue their sexual and emotional gratification.

The seductive mindset is the knowledge that you're a woman who can LEAD a man to where you want to go - and deliver pleasure to him. It’s the freedom to be yourself, to revel in your femininity and to pursue sensual delights with a husband who’s your equal.

However cupcakes, if you’re projecting a phony persona or pretending to be a seductress, forget it. It won’t have the same effect. A seductress must be AUTHENTIC at being seductive, as well as a 'natural;' The Natural

If you’re a TRUE seductress, who’s on an equal footing with your man, he’ll be attached to you - body and soul - and he'll be happy to share with you potentially countless days and nights. In the natural order of things, men and women crave each others company, and will luxuriate in a true intimacy and passion with a member of the opposite sex.

Furthermore, men and women were designed to complement each other in marriage, to join their bodies and souls, and merge together for a complete whole. Of course there are some women who can remain single and be somewhat fulfilled, but most women crave male companionship ALL of their lives.

When you’re ready, when you cultivate your femininity and get a seductive mindset, you’ll find men who'll want you not only for your seductive appeal but because you have inherent POWER over them.

You can gain access to that power here; Feminissima - School of Feminine Arts

Now, some women were born pretty dove, even beautiful, but there are various degrees of attraction that appeal to men.

Besides physical attraction, most men look for sexual chemistry, compatibility, a certain mindset and SUBSTANCE in a woman - that particular substance will make a woman a lot more desirable than other women.

This mindset and substance are fairly unique things to find in a woman, and will almost certainly be discovered by a very unique man who'll seem destined to be with her alone.

By the way, substance is not about wealth and material possessions but an inner wealth of vitality, character and disposition. Furthermore, this "glow of beauty" emanates from a woman’s very core, and can’t be extinguished.

It’s also the product of a sensitivity, and a woman's deep understanding of herself and the universe.

A woman of substance is irresistible and enchanting.

In addition, you'll need to devise an action plan where you can feel pride in yourself as a feminine and seductive woman. You'll need to work on cultivating a seductive mindset, as well as seductive attitude and appearance.

By the way, you can learn how to get a seductive appearance here; The Art of Beautification for Seductresses

Then, you'll need to start acting like there’s no tomorrow, and living only for the present time (and enjoying the serendipity as it comes :-))

All of this will result in an irresistible new you - inside and OUT.

Now, let’s take a look at an action plan I’ve devised, to help you access your seductive inner self and project it outwards. To regain your status as a powerful and seductive woman, there are steps to harness that inner substance in you;

Visualization can be very powerful for a woman, and done consistently, can help her to completely reprogram her mind with positive affirmations, and get rid of any self-limiting beliefs. Several times a day, imagine yourself as an extremely powerful, loving and seductive woman, who’s ALWAYS that way. Visualize yourself in all kinds of scenarios with a man and as has having a lot of power in your relationship. Moreover, visualize how you'll always react and respond to your man with your new seductive mindset and attitude.

Seduce YOURSELF; in order to seduce a man, a woman must first and foremost seduce herself!

Watch some movies that have seductive women as central figures. Some examples are; Elizabeth Taylor in “Cleopatra,” Reri in “Tabu: A Story of the South Seas,” and Sophia Loren in “Sobato.”

Re-align your thoughts and believe with every fiber of your being that you’re a powerful, loving and seductive woman who oozes femininity, sensuality, voluptuousness…. Believing yourself to be a powerful, loving and seductive woman will reinforce your subconscious mind, giving you a seductive mindset and attitude, as well as bring you the confidence you need to attract quality men.

Forgive yourself for every dating and relationship mistake you’ve ever made. Forgive the men who've caused you pain. Guilt and unhappiness are not ideal for kick-starting a new seductive mindset - or for a seductress-in-training's re-alignment process! To get rid of any guilt, try to make up for it somehow, squelching it with your thoughts. And stop beating yourself up over past mistakes and failures.

Work on your confidence with subliminal exercises, you can find those here; The Feminine Art of Confidence Program Learn to accept constructive criticism without it rattling you, and gain something valuable from it. Make yourself be more assertive than usual, and learn to say “no” in a non-aggressive way. Believe in yourself and your worth!

I do hope you enjoyed my article; 'The Seductive Mindset of a Seductress.'

Much love,
Melina xxx

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