How to Be Fascinating

 How to Be Fascinating - Enrich Your Experience

To enrich your experience, and your mental and spiritual outlook, make an effort to meet people, to make friends, to DO things with people. Join clubs; they bring you in touch with many people. 

Join classes to study things with others. Furthermore, learn to do many of the things that others are doing, so that you'll not be left out.

Learn to dance, or to play tennis.... or any other sport which will bring you into companionship with people - under pleasant and healthy conditions. 

PLAY is also as necessary to a woman as food and sleep is, dove. Moreover, play with people, it's stimulating and refreshing!

How to Be Fascinating - Have Many Interests

The richest and most fascinating people are those who have MANY interests. You may be fascinated by jazz music. You may love the theater. You may like to amuse yourself by cooking exotic recipes, and you'll search for the ingredients at the markets, in the foreign quarters of your city.

Furthermore, do things outside the NORMAL routine of your life. Get some new hobbies. Collect things; flowers, coins, stamps, antiques.... anything. Broaden your interests, and you'll become more and more interesting :-)

Broaden your interests by learning something about everything. It's a mistake, though, to be pedantic about your knowledge of things. Nobody is more tiresome than the intellectual prig!

Having MANY interests and passions is the fascination of the Advanced Femmes, and it's a fascination which every woman can cultivate, to a certain degree.

How to Be Fascinating - Expand Your Intellect

You can begin to expand your intellect by reading the daily paper every morning. REALLY read it, doll, including the editorials and reviews!

Most women are content merely to skip nimbly through the headlines, and more often than not, go strait to the celebrity pages.

Read books in every field. Read about travel and religion and philosophy. Read about psychology and cooking and natural therapies. Read about gardening and history and art.

Furthermore, the lives of famous people, biographies and autobiographies, are enchanting things to begin on.

How to Be Fascinating - Take A Lively Interest In Others

To become fascinating, you want to awaken your mind, as well as it fill it with good things, in order to enliven your conversations. But remember too, lovely, it takes two to make a conversation. And half of a woman's charm is to be a good listener.

LET other people talk. They'll love you for it. And don't interrupt!

Don't let yourself get bored, however. In doing this, your own widening interests will help you. For as you expand your outlook to embrace a wider and wider horizon, you'll be surprised to realize that more and more things interest you, and fewer and fewer things bore you!

Being a good listener will always make people like you. But being a good listener isn't a PASSIVE talent, dove. It doesn't mean sitting dumb and inert while talk rains at you. Far from it. 

Nothing is more discouraging to the talker. Nothing makes you seem more dull and uninteresting!

A good listener takes a LIVELY interest in all that's being said. 

Do MORE than listen to the words. Listen with your mind. Follow the mind of the talker (people soon sense your mental inattention, if you're only hearing with your ears.)

On the other hand, your responsive mental interest will flatter and stimulate a person to keep talking. So, show people that you're entertained by what they're saying. 

Conversation is like a game of tennis. If your partner serves you ball after ball, and you allow them all to drop about you unheeded, he or she will soon tire of the game. But if you watch their play, returning their balls, and keep the talk volleying back and forth with lively interest, they'll ENJOY the game. 

And seek you for a partner again.

How to Be Fascinating - Feel The Mood and Adjust Yourself to It

When you're talking, you can sometimes feel the attentive listener responding like a vibrating chord. You sense when his interest wanes, however, even if there's been no sign of inattention. 

This will embarrass you, cloud your mind.... yes, but with a responsive listener your thoughts fly. Your tongue is glib. And you feel the stimulus of their ALERTNESS.

Your vibrations (your 'vibe,') are always reinforced by a responsive vibration. This phenomenon is multiplied a hundredfold in the theater, as all experiences of personality are. Any actor or actress will also tell you that when they feel the sympathy, the interest, and the response of the audience.

It carries them on to play their parts with greater zest.

Actors dread a half-filled theater. However, they thrill to the high-keyed expectancy in the air of a first night, or a gala performance. They can also feel their audience's mood and adjust themselves to it.

In a lesser degree, that same vibrant current underlies every conversation. You break the current, if you fidget or grow bored. However, you strengthen the current when you attend with all of your mind. 

Being a vibrant listener will always make people like you.It's a charming asset and easily cultivated.

The Great Ladies, and the Advanced Femmes of history took the trouble to INFORM themselves - about the interests, the work, and the hobbies of every one whom they received in their 'salon.' 

Thus, a Great Lady was prepared to lead people on to talk about themselves, while she responded and questioned them intelligently. And every one who met this brilliant woman testified to her charm, her radiance and her spontaneous sympathy.  

Perhaps this was one of her greatest secrets. 

You can adopt the secret for your own.

How to Be Fascinating - Be Charming

If there's a man you wish to attract, find out all you can about his work, his passions, what he reads, what he does for amusement. Then read up on his work, even get books from your public library, if necessary, that will help you to understand it.

Furthermore, dove, learn the games or the sports that he enjoys. Then you'll be able to talk to him in his OWN language about the things he hopes to accomplish, and the things he has done. 

Furthermore, you'll be equipped to listen to him animatedly, and he'll find you fascinating and attractive!

The subject of 'feminine charm' has aroused much interest on my blogs. Most relationship experts will also admit that it's as important for a woman to have CHARM as it is to have beauty. Indeed, if she has charm, she can actually be plain, but still be attractive, magnetic.... fascinating.

Charm is not synonymous with personality, however, and it's not as broad a term as personality. Charm is just one aspect, though a very important aspect of personality. It's the power of winning and pleasing people. 

Some lucky women have this quality as a 'gift from the gods.' Others LEARN it Charm Warfare – The Art of Charm for Seductresses

To a certain extent, of course, your charm is expressed by what you say. Common sense will also tell you that you must be careful not to give offense in any way. But to be charming, you must go further than that, and give pleasure by the grace and tact in your attitude toward people.

An old saying comes to mind; "you can catch more bees with honey than you can with vinegar." Remember this quaint truth in all your dealings with people. 

In addition,a quick, lashing tongue hurts you more than it hurts any one else. And complaint, sourness, cattiness etc, cuts you off from sympathetic contacts. 

Be GRACIOUS, enthusiastically attentive to people, and they'll feel your charm :-)

We are all so busy, so hurried, these days, that we can grow entirely concentrated on our own interests. People sense this exclusion and are repelled by it. Moreover, we must utilize our time wisely, and work more effectively, if we don't want to lose all our power to ATTRACT people.

Anyhow, cupcake, I do hope you enjoyed my post; 'How to Be Fascinating!' 

Much love,
Melina xxx

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Emotional Intelligence For Women (And The Dangers Of Narcissism)

The peace, contentment, satisfaction and fulfillment of women is usually achieved by two factors; success success in personal life, and success in work life.

Even men recognize this where their own lives are concerned. But to be an ideal woman, a certain QUALITY of character are required, that cause friendship, comradeship and partnership to blossom.

Some women are born wives and mothers, and because they feel they "belong" to their homes, have a natural pride in, and love for their homes. And most feminine women will at least spend part of their energy making their homes beautiful, clean and orderly.


As we already know, homemaking, nurturing and beautifying is a significant part of the feminine woman's nature.

Ideally, a woman can run a home or business relatively comfortably and easily, and without much friction or fuss - if she doesn't try to take on too much at once, is realistic about what she's trying to achieve, and has good time-management.

However dove, a home or business can fail from a lack of capable house-keeping/business-running! Furthermore, even though it takes TWO to create a happy marriage, it only takes one to ruin what should be the most satisfactory and fulfilling of all human relationships.

Naturally brains and ambition are very important for a woman to have if she wants to be successful in life, and beauty is an artistic joy. But the EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT and ideal woman has even more than the average woman!

The Emotionally Intelligent Woman and Ideal Woman

1. Has brains, beauty (inner,) and substance in the highest order.

2. Trusts her intuition, which indicates perception through the subconscious mind.

3. Shows superior attributes such as generosity and kindness.

4. Has an inner sense of peace and serenity.

5. Exerts the feminine power of amativeness, which goes far beyond the mental gifts of a woman (even if she has 10 degrees!)

Now, what exactly is "emotional intelligence?" And why do we need to have/cultivate it as feminine and seductive women?

Wikipedia tells us;

"Emotional intelligence (EI) is an ability, skill or, in the case of the trait EI model, a self-perceived ability to identify, assess, and control the emotions of oneself, of others, and of groups....

The model introduced by Daniel Goleman focuses on EI as a wide array of competencies and skills that drive leadership performance. Goleman's model outlines four main EI constructs:

1. Self-awareness – the ability to read one's emotions and recognize their impact while using gut feelings to guide decisions.

2. Self-management – involves controlling one's emotions and impulses and adapting to changing circumstances.

3. Social awareness – the ability to sense, understand, and react to others' emotions while comprehending social networks.

4. Relationship management – the ability to inspire, influence, and develop others while managing conflict...."

Emotional intelligence is what makes a woman emotionally 'fit' if you will, and it's an attribute that the QUALITY men notice and admire in quality women *smile.*

Would you consider yourself emotionally intelligent dove?

Like the qualities of kindness and amativeness, ''El" is one of the greatest and most attractive and lovable of qualities of the male and the female.

Emotional intelligence not only involves self-control, self-discipline and self-awareness, it also involves sympathy, empathy, the capacity for understanding another's difficulties, and the desire to help others. It's even a spiritual quality possessed by sensitive, fine people.

How the lack of emotional intelligence mars and destroys happiness in the home and in the world! Moreover, mere beauty in a woman becomes irritating if associated with a shallow, petty, greedy, narrow or unkind outlook on life.

Furthermore, being emotionally intelligent doesn't involve being selfish or having an entitlement complex.

Life Can Be Difficult. If Life Was Meant To be Fair, It Would Be a CARNIVAL.

Here's something we all have to accept dove; life can be difficult, and unfair. And from the beginnings of time, life has had its unfair share of difficulties, fears and disappointments.

In fact life has its difficulties for every woman, especially for those of us who've been abused, who are super sensitive and/or who can't adjust ourselves to reality very well.

We've ALL suffered setbacks and/or adversity in one way or another, and many of us yearn for the attainment of peace, happiness and harmony. Moreover, many of us yearn to find the meaning of life - through religion, spirituality and/or philosophy. And when we study psychology, we receive a truer insight into our qualities, opinions, and actions.

As feminine and seductive women, it's important that we immerse ourselves in self-improvement and development. Even so, it can be difficult to develop emotionally and psychologically when in every one of us there's a will and desire which must be satisfied, and an energy which must have an outlet!

Furthermore, when we're born into this world, we're inherently self-centered and ego-centric beings. Even as adults, the instinct of self-preservation, hunger etc, is centered on ourselves. Gradually however, this instinct and energy must EXPAND - through love and consideration of others.

Here's the thing dove; many women ( including ourselves,) find life especially difficult because they've failed where EXPANSION of the self is concerned. And some men and women actually remain fixed in the first phase of life, i.e."infantile fixation."

Such individuals can be the victims of Narcissism, a perverse, unhealthy and dangerous form of ''self-love.'' And a narcissistic person attempts to get happiness from life as the infant does - through self-satisfaction, and self-advancement.

Not only that, but narcissistic men and women are self-centered, egotistical, arrogant and demanding.... to the extreme. They also have a massive ENTITLEMENT complex and will take everything they can get (whether they deserve it or not.) Furthermore, giving and self-sacrifice is an alien concept to the narcissist (except if it's in order to get something.)

Ask yourself dove, as a woman who aims to be an IDEAL and seductive woman, does this description fit in any degree to you?

Questions For Every Woman To Ask Herself

Do you want to give to life, or do you demand that life should give to you?

Do you think that people, employees, men, the world.... ''owe'' you?

Moreover, could gratification of self be what you so wrongly call happiness?

If you answered ''yes"to any of these questions, you're not only lacking in emotional intelligence, but you'll find that life becomes difficult.

You''ll constantly be disappointed in friendships and in love. You'll also expect and demand from others what you, yourself, can't, and aren't willing to give.

And if you have a sense of humor and perspective, you'll realize that no one will ever completely give to you - especially their trust and appreciation.

Sadly lovely, the world is full of men and women who are narcissistic infantile, and who suffer ALL of the time. Since they never had the chance to fully develop - emotionally and psychologically - they never could adjust themselves to others, to authority, to the infinite....

Despite being as toxic and as maddening as they come, you really have to feel sorry for narcissistic men and women. They suffer from jealousy and envy. They suffer from a SCARCITY mindset and a belief that there's not enough resources to go around. They suffer from a massive sense of inferiority, as well as from a lack of genuine appreciation.

Interestingly, a narcissist will often tell you that he or she is misunderstood, and even that the reason they're so misunderstood is because they're so special and rare, that no-one can possibly understand them. Furthermore, they're extremely difficult in their relationships, family life, and in business.

Essentially, a narcissistic person is so self-deluded, that ultimately, they drive everyone in their life away. And never grows up.

Ask yourself lovely, if you don't know such people, by the SCORE!

The Good News

Fortunately, when this doesn't apply to you, or to your nearest and dearest, things will go relatively smoothly for you. And when you're a fully developed woman, who has something of real VALUE to offer others the more likely you'll live a fuller, and more delightful and harmonious life.

You'll have your place in the sun, and achieve joy by giving in service to others :-)

In addition, you'll be an emotionally intelligent and COMPLETE woman, not a half-woman - full of fears, insecurity and jealousy. You won't be criticizing or complaining endlessly either (like a narcissistic person does,) and you'll be capable of loyal friendships, relationships, devotion and trust.

The Dangers of Narcissism

Unfortunately for narcissistic men and women, it's not only impossible for others to appreciate them, but to have FAITH in them (due to the damage they're constantly doing to themselves and others.) Furthermore;

1. Narcissistic people are often 'walking disasters'' and drama-queens. I don't say that to be mean dove, I say it because life seems to be in a constant state of upheaval for the narcissist. And daily difficulties usually get blown out of all proportion.

2. The narcissist's social sense and 'El' is poorly-developed. There's not only an inability to get on with others, or to give unconditionally, but an ever-present mental conflict caused by the clashing of the self-gratification urge with the moral sense.

3. The narcissist's feelings of jealousy, envy and being threatened by the satisfaction and success of others are constant. As is the harboring of imaginary grievances and slights.

4. The emotional tone of narcissistic people is almost always unhappy or angry.

5. Narcissists are constantly suspicious, and seeing evil in the most trivial and natural occurrences.

6. Narcissistic men and women form in their mind an unrealistic fantasy of themselves, and live the life of their imaginations; believing themselves to be people of great talent, uniqueness, intellect, beauty, position.... And live according to its rulings (of course, this is a massively inflated image that's out of proportion to reality.)

7. The narcissist over-endows himself/herself with superior or omnipotent attributes - such as power, wit, charm and attraction.

8. The narcissist never sees life as it is. The mind is wasted in ''castle-building,'' in saturating oneself with flattering conceits. And in their forties, narcissistic men and women often become disappointed, sour, jaded and bitter.

**The cause of narcissism lies partly in heredity, partly in the environment, and in the influence of the father, mother, or the mother-substitute.

The Narcissistic Female

The traits of selfishness and narcissism are not only anti-seductive for a woman, but warp her emotionally and intellectually, so that she lacks efficiency and squanders her divine feminine energy.

The female narcissist will be bitter indeed if she's failed to climb the ladder of business/social success. With her fantasy self as the center of attention, and as a leader of business and fashion.

She may also be the ambitious, professional woman who hasn't achieved the pinnacles of success that she originally set out to achieve. And who, twenty years later, disparages her more gifted and successful colleagues (and gives all sorts of unworthy reasons for their success.)

We all have traits of selfishness/narcissism, to a certain degree, but thankfully, not all of us have them in such extremes! Nevertheless, it may still be a good thing to probe our motives from time to time - especially if we find ourselves speaking unkindly of others.

As a feminine, seductive and ideal woman doll, the less admirable feminine traits - such as jealousy, envy and malice - which women do have a tendency to possess, should be discouraged as much as possible.

In addition, a feminine seductress knows that the weeds of character choke the more beautiful feminine qualities - such as kindness, grace The Art of Being a Woman; Feminine Grace, tolerance and empathy.

Let's also remove the rose-colored glasses when we regard ourselves, and slip them in place again when we find ourselves criticizing too harshly the faults of other people! No one's perfect. However, that doesn't mean that we shouldn't be constantly aiming for IMPROVEMENT.

Where Self-Improvement and Psychology Come In

A feminine seductress always aims for self-improvement, the cultivation and development of the more ideal feminine attributes, and she studies (to a certain extent,) psychology.

Everything that a woman can learn from this fascinating subject; the science and study of the mind, can help her to do, and BE, her very best in the world. Furthermore, psychology deals with the emotions, sensations, reasonings, as well as with the subconscious motives and desires.

Self-improvement and development should be on every woman's "to-do" list. It's also a subject of vast importance for any woman who desires to lead a healthier, happier and more useful life. And to satisfy the natural urge for pleasure and to serve others.

Furthermore, the study of psychology and self-improvement/development will help women to adjust themselves to life (as it is,) with its advantages and disadvantages, its pleasure and pain, its joys and sorrows....

However lovely, a lack of simple psychological knowledge, as well as a lack of desire for self-improvement, only creates soul-sick, depressed and dreary men and women - who are a ''drag'' in their friendships and relationships.

Psychology helps us to understand ourselves, to see more clearly our own feelings and faults, and to sympathize with the minds and motives of others. And to ''know thyself,'' and to understand others, is one of the greatest lessons we can learn from life!

Anyhow dove, I do hope you enjoyed my article; 'Emotional Intelligence For Women (And The Dangers Of Narcissism!)

Much love,
Melina xxx

PS; PEACE and serenity is your natural state lovely! When you let go of your attachments and aversions to the emotions that are blocking inner peace from your view, you''ll see that it's always available to you.

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The Art of Being a Woman; Feminine Grace

FEW women are endowed with an abundance of Feminine Grace.

The words "grace," "graceful," and "gracious" all stem from the same root. The grace and love of God - without regard to our worthiness.

Being endowed with such grace means being beautiful and serene in every aspect dove.

In;

Your thoughts.

Your living.

Your carriage.

Your movements.

Your interactions with other people.

The way you treat yourself. Many of us have seen a woman who we thought was just ordinary looking, who was even a little bit overweight, but who bagged an Adonis for a husband. This is the woman who often has a Feminine Grace, as well as graciousness, that other women FAIL to acquire.


An inner charm always shows through such women, and a man always notices Feminine Grace, and other such outstanding feminine traits. A truly graceful woman is a woman with a peculiar BALM in her spirit.

She's a serene woman (who's quietly confident of her femininity and beauty,) and draws others in with her calm aura of mystique.

**However, due to the harsher realities of life, there may be a touch of gentle irony in many graceful women - along with the graciousness and sweetness.

Feminine Grace is cultivated and perfected through a special kind of living. The division is also quite obvious between the graceful/gracious woman and ungraceful/ungracious woman.

Nevertheless, the lifestyle of Feminine Grace is easier live than the MODERN version of ''womanhood,'' which often demands of the modern woman more than she should have to bear.

In fact lovely, I adamantly believe a woman's load should be LIGHT. And when you're living life as a truly feminine, graceful and gracious woman, underneath it all, you realize that you're missing nothing essential from life.

Gracefulness, as well as graciousness, isn't something that's on the surface either, it comes from within (and in my opinion, where God's grace and peace has found a nesting place.) In addition, graceful living, as well as giving, grows out of our LOVE and gratitude.

Furthermore, a woman who's classed as feminine and graceful isn't loud, overbearing or highly-strung, ever. And withdraws into her own serenity and pleasure with the garden and her thoughts.

An IRRESISTIBLE woman is not only graceful, but confident and comfortable with what she has - and in her own skin. She may have her little faults and foibles, but she realizes that no one's perfect.

And takes consolation in her more outstanding qualities, while minimizing the flaws and making men feel comfortable and blessed to be around her :-)

The most irresistible women are content with their feminine and graceful appeal, and are CREATIVE in cultivating it. Moreover, they're serene and enjoy each moment of their lives.

Such women can also just read or do some tinkering or crafts, and are never bored or frowning in dissatisfaction.

Which can make a woman look ugly. Their happiness with their lot in life makes graceful women glow from WITHIN. And men see through the outward physical appearance and admire them for their inner radiance and charm.

When you take time to analyze the most ideal women and traits, you'll find that the women who are confident, serene, happy and independent are the types of women that all the quality men want.

When you make a man feel that he makes you happy just by BEING with him, yet you retain your serenity and independence, he'll be able to share more of himself.

To the MALE spirit, Feminine Grace is not only like having a soothing balm of honey applied to all the nooks and crannies, but like being presented with a banquet of sweetness *smile.*

As we're collectively in turmoil with our disappointments and discontents, the feminine soul that's found PEACE is submissive and accepting. And has something so different from others that it works like catnip.

When this superior brand of grace and graciousness finds a response in YOUR heart lovely, you virtually become a 'dove' woman.

Furthermore, your relationships with your man, as well as with your friends and neighbors become harmonious and gracious - in the truest sense.

Kindness, consideration and a loving attitude towards her man, family and peers is what makes a graceful 'dove' woman truly remarkable. These attributes also come from a joy within - as one can't hope to be graceful or gracious without a complete ACCEPTANCE of oneself.

Feminine grace and graciousness also comes from understanding and accepting personal limitations. And in the happiness and satisfaction of being gifted and exemplary.

**This accounts for the peace and serenity in the typical face and expression of dove women (and keeping a hold on the symbol of the dove, a woman can go through her life with an inner peace and serenity :-))

It's sometimes disheartening to learn how our modern women treat themselves, as well as their femininity. In keeping up with the modern world, many women have abandoned dressing up for occasions - and wearing pretty and feminine dresses.

Sadly too, although being serene, gracious and feminine makes the modern teenage girl distinct, it makes her a STRANGER among her peers.

Nevertheless, femininity and Feminine Grace and graciousness isn't really about wardrobe or floral dresses dove. But it definitely isn't about punky dressing, or the hip-hop or hard-rock music style of dressing!

Like femininity, it's is actually an ART form, and the feminine artist achieves that by living a life of serenity, graciousness and elegance. It's also about demonstrating polite and courteous behavior, and using charm and calm logic to go through the travails of daily life.

Feminine Grace and graciousness is exuding love and a bright light to serve as BEACONS to those who want to be near feminine beauty and serenity.

It's feeling good about being a WOMAN, with your inherent limitation and power.

In addition cupcake, the seduction of men is achieved through a gentle manipulation of the mind. And by exhibiting very attractive and ideal qualities that men just can't help falling for!

SEDUCTIVE Feminine Grace is about self-confidence and a high degree of self esteem, knowing you’re a beautiful and loving woman, and that a man just can’t help getting drawn in by your magnetic personality.

Your looks don't really come into this.

The truly feminine and graceful woman knows that she''s a COMPLETE person, no matter what she looks like. She also doesn’t need a man to make her secure, safe and complete but is happy to acknowledge that a member of the opposite sex is meant by nature to complement her.

She's not averse to the idea of a male protector either, and in fact welcomes it, and even seeks a superior specimen *wink.*

However, a woman endowed with feminine grace and seductiveness is empowered by her womanliness, and doesn't use feminine weakness as an excuse.

YES, she knows she can get many advantages by being sweet and adorable, but she's strong, likes what she is, and is comfortable in her role!

In addition, a truly feminine and graceful woman is rather UNIQUE in her being - in the way she dresses and presents herself to the word. Furthermore, she doesn't need to follow trendy styles just to be “in.”

The feminine and graceful woman delights in her individuality, and knows what looks good on her. And what brings out her beauty. She also savors every learning experience to IMPROVE herself, and to make herself superior.

Therefore, she can converse with confidence, showing off her unique knowledge and wisdom.

A wisdom that makes her able to preserve her poise in the world.

The feminine and graceful woman revels in the beauty of the natural world.

She revels in the peace of a SIMPLE life;

The fire burning at night.

The purring of the pussy cat.

The smell of freshly baked bread.

The rising of the sun.

The magic of a rainbow.

The sheen of the dew on the grass....

In addition, taking care of her feminine body, and luxuriating in beauty enhancement lotions and oils to make her skin supple and soft is a hallmark of a feminine and graceful woman.

She knows and accepts what she is, and is very proud of her skin, her features and does everything within her power to beautify herself.

So she can present herself in a serene and gracious manner in public.

The real charm of the woman with feminine grace and graciousness is her inner happiness and contentment - making her glow and her eyes shine.

In addition, her Feminine Grace draws those of the opposite sex to her, basking in her glow.

The graceful and gracious woman doesn't need to rely on other people to make her happy either. She's found various hobbies and productive endeavors to keep her busy and occupied.

There's nothing as anti-seductive, or as boring, in a social situation as a BORED woman dove!

A truly graceful and gracious woman is never bored, but takes joy in the little things of life; little outings, little pleasures, a country drive.... and likes to use her feminine gifts and talents in making others happy.

Anyhow cupcake, I do hope you enjoyed my post; 'The Art of Being a Woman; Feminine Grace.'

Much love, Melina xxx

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Secrets of the Most Seductive Women

Men have always had different ideals of what’s considered to be beautiful, attractive, desirable and SEDUCTIVE in women.

Here’s an example dove; in the 1600s, ideal female beauty and seductiveness was attributed to the plump, voluptuous and Rubenesque women.

During, and after WWII, curvaceous (but very slim-waisted,) women, who had big eyes and great legs, were deemed as embodying ideal feminine beauty and seductiveness.

These days, women who are willowy, big busted and long-legged (with pretty faces and long hair,) are deemed most to be the most seductive women because these are considered to be ‘perfect’ physical attributes on women.

Although having these ideal physical attributes will put you in league with the BEAUTIES, there’s no yardstick or weighing apparatus to accurately measure if you conform to the standard of ideal female beauty and seductiveness or not. That’s also because the standard is a subjective thing - in both the viewer and yourself.

However lovely, when you think of yourself as BEAUTIFUL and seductive, and behave as if you’re a beautiful and seductive woman, no matter how pretty or plain you are, you’ll be projecting yourself as beautiful - and your male audience will perceive and believe that you’re beautiful :-)

In her younger days, Barbara Streisand certainly couldn't be called a classic beauty, but she had this enigmatic seductive personality, and of course she sings like an ANGEL - which helped made her ‘divinely beautiful.’

Cher wasn’t a classic beauty, or perfect female beauty either, but there’s something about her EXOTIC appeal that still charms and entices her male audience today. Furthermore, her huge, dark and luminous Armenian eyes speak volumes.

Now cupcake, why are the most seductive women associated with being beautiful or pretty? Well naturally, being a seductive woman is related to attracting the opposite sex. It’s also the natural reaction of men, who are predominantly VISUAL, to be attracted to ideal feminine beauty.

However, most men aren’t initially attracted to beauty as a WHOLE, but to wisps and traces of it leading to the whole. Some men will also get a glimpse or a whiff of something attractive in a woman, that makes them glance back and inhale again (and sometimes they’re seduced forever ;-))

As you’re probably already aware, most women’s magazines are dedicated to beautifying women, and are filled with advertisements for beauty enhancing products, tips on dressing, putting on make-up, exercising for a slimmer silhouette and everything else for a woman to become pretty and desirable and sexy.

In addition, any woman can become ethereally beautiful, but if she’s cold inside or arrogant, FORGET it! Her coldness and arrogance will always be showing through, and arrogance is a hallmark of the unsure.

Moreover, a truly beautiful woman has a passion for life; an inner force that radiates in her personality - and a readiness and enthusiasm for the challenges and pleasures of daily life.

The most feminine and seductive women not only know that the differences between a male and a female are DISTINCT (and should be distinct) - but can see it in the biology of animals. We have our distinct place as women in this world, doll, as decreed by nature.

We can try to fight the disparity some of the time, but nature (and the ovaries and the testes,) dictate how we should basically conform *giggle* When nature has it’s way, the men pursue, and the women get wooed and pursued. Furthermore, the woman will either reject a suitor, or will accept him (ideally on her terms.)

A woman also OWNS the sexual power if she’s a feminine and seductive woman and she’s desired by a man.

However, a feminine and seductive woman can’t let herself relax too much, or let herself go for that matter. No! She always needs to be her most seductive self - and even primp and strut a little when she’s competing with other women for the “strongest, handsomest and ablest” alpha male *wink*

The way to a man's heart is by the SENSES. If you please his eyes, and all the rest, half the work is done. In addition, a woman who possesses the great art of PLEASING, of gaining the affections of those she converses with, possesses an attribute which facilitates and helps her rise.

Sadly, few young women realize how powerful this feminine art is, and as they grow older and wiser, strive to recover what they lost by negligence. And pride, self-absorption and inattention are the main culprits.

Truly, in the game and art of seduction, the WOMAN can hold all of the cards (and if you do follow my advice, a man is destined to be fascinated and enamored!)

Moreover, most women just need to know how to become their most seductive selves, to learn The Seductive Way (Ars Amatoria,) Feminissima - School of Feminine Arts and to awaken and sharpen their inborn skills.

**Just remember dove, that the woman next to you may have sharper claws and better sharpening stones, than you do!

Now, after reading my post, I want you to look at yourself critically in the mirror and assess yourself. What needs improving or changing? Where do you stand now?

Furthermore, ask your friends what they think of you. Once you know what needs improving/changing about your looks, start working on yourself, beauty-wise, from head to toe.

You may decide to get a more feminine and flattering hair style and to make your hair glow and shine.

To become the most seductive woman, find the beauty products, cosmetics and make-up that will;

Make you eyes bigger and more luminous.

Make your lashes longer and thicker.

Reduce, heal or camouflage your blemishes.

Give definition to your nose.

Tint and color your cheeks.

.... and all those other little tricks that will help to beautify the face. You can get some great tips here The Art of Beautification for Seductresses

I also want you to start using a good moisturizer or serum for your face and neck. Don’t forget the neck because you can keep your face pretty and tight with the aid of cosmetics, but as you age, the telltale signs of aging first show up on your neck.

Have some pretty and feminine underwear. Even if you’re wearing t-shirts and casual everyday wear, good quality, sexy under things will give you that feeling of femininity and seductiveness. That feeling will also shine through in your behavior and in your walk.

Keep your posture straight and aim to walk smoothly, effortlessly, and with GRACE. Never forget lovely, as a feminine and seductive woman, you need to keep your poise and cool demeanor at all times.

Keep smiling and making brief eye contact with your man/men. Listen to your voice and try to make it sound more whispery and seductive. Mind your diction dove, and form a habit of correctness and elegance in conversation.

A feminine and seductive woman takes great care to speak grammatically and correctly, and to pronounce her words properly. Furthermore, a woman of substance never has recourse for slang or vulgar aphorisms!

Work on your feminine grace and confidence. A woman's fortune is frequently decided by the way she carries herself, and her address. Moreover, if her composure and voice show confidence, and are pleasing, a man will surmise that she's a woman of MERIT.

However, if a woman's awkward and ungraceful, men won't respond favorably to her, and may be prejudiced against her, even if they don't intend to be.

The most seductive women know what their best points are - and are able to PLAY them up and use them - to their best advantage. They also know how to minimize their weaker points and balance them out with self-improvement! And finally doll, the most seductive women are always well-groomed and smell fresh and lovely at all times.

Much love,
Melina xxx

Books and Courses for Seductive Women

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• The Art of Being a Siren
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