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Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Emotional Intelligence For Women (And The Dangers Of Narcissism)

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The peace, contentment, satisfaction and fulfillment of women is usually achieved by two factors; success success in personal life, and success in work life.

Even men recognize this where their own lives are concerned. But to be an ideal woman, a certain QUALITY of character are required, that cause friendship, comradeship and partnership to blossom.

Some women are born wives and mothers, and because they feel they "belong" to their homes, have a natural pride in, and love for their homes. And most feminine women will at least spend part of their energy making their homes beautiful, clean and orderly.

As we already know, homemaking, nurturing and beautifying is a significant part of the feminine woman's nature.

Ideally, a woman can run a home or business relatively comfortably and easily, and without much friction or fuss - if she doesn't try to take on too much at once, is realistic about what she's trying to achieve, and has good time-management.

However dove, a home or business can fail from a lack of capable house-keeping/business-running! Furthermore, even though it takes TWO to create a happy marriage, it only takes one to ruin what should be the most satisfactory and fulfilling of all human relationships.

Naturally brains and ambition are very important for a woman to have if she wants to be successful in life, and beauty is an artistic joy. But the EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT and ideal woman has even more than the average woman!

The Emotionally Intelligent Woman and Ideal Woman

1. Has brains, beauty (inner,) and substance in the highest order.

2. Trusts her intuition, which indicates perception through the subconscious mind.

3. Shows superior attributes such as generosity and kindness.

4. Has an inner sense of peace and serenity.

5. Exerts the feminine power of amativeness, which goes far beyond the mental gifts of a woman (even if she has 10 degrees!)

Now, what exactly is "emotional intelligence?" And why do we need to have/cultivate it as feminine and seductive women?

Wikipedia tells us;

"Emotional intelligence (EI) is an ability, skill or, in the case of the trait EI model, a self-perceived ability to identify, assess, and control the emotions of oneself, of others, and of groups....

The model introduced by Daniel Goleman focuses on EI as a wide array of competencies and skills that drive leadership performance. Goleman's model outlines four main EI constructs:

1. Self-awareness – the ability to read one's emotions and recognize their impact while using gut feelings to guide decisions.

2. Self-management – involves controlling one's emotions and impulses and adapting to changing circumstances.

3. Social awareness – the ability to sense, understand, and react to others' emotions while comprehending social networks.

4. Relationship management – the ability to inspire, influence, and develop others while managing conflict...."

Emotional intelligence is what makes a woman emotionally 'fit' if you will, and it's an attribute that the QUALITY men notice and admire in quality women *smile.*

Would you consider yourself emotionally intelligent dove?

Like the qualities of kindness and amativeness, ''El" is one of the greatest and most attractive and lovable of qualities of the male and the female.

Emotional intelligence not only involves self-control, self-discipline and self-awareness, it also involves sympathy, empathy, the capacity for understanding another's difficulties, and the desire to help others. It's even a spiritual quality possessed by sensitive, fine people.

How the lack of emotional intelligence mars and destroys happiness in the home and in the world! Moreover, mere beauty in a woman becomes irritating if associated with a shallow, petty, greedy, narrow or unkind outlook on life.

Furthermore, being emotionally intelligent doesn't involve being selfish or having an entitlement complex.

Life Can Be Difficult. If Life Was Meant To be Fair, It Would Be a CARNIVAL.

Here's something we all have to accept dove; life can be difficult, and unfair. And from the beginnings of time, life has had its unfair share of difficulties, fears and disappointments.

In fact life has its difficulties for every woman, especially for those of us who've been abused, who are super sensitive and/or who can't adjust ourselves to reality very well.

We've ALL suffered setbacks and/or adversity in one way or another, and many of us yearn for the attainment of peace, happiness and harmony. Moreover, many of us yearn to find the meaning of life - through religion, spirituality and/or philosophy. And when we study psychology, we receive a truer insight into our qualities, opinions, and actions.

As feminine and seductive women, it's important that we immerse ourselves in self-improvement and development. Even so, it can be difficult to develop emotionally and psychologically when in every one of us there's a will and desire which must be satisfied, and an energy which must have an outlet!

Furthermore, when we're born into this world, we're inherently self-centered and ego-centric beings. Even as adults, the instinct of self-preservation, hunger etc, is centered on ourselves. Gradually however, this instinct and energy must EXPAND - through love and consideration of others.

Here's the thing dove; many women ( including ourselves,) find life especially difficult because they've failed where EXPANSION of the self is concerned. And some men and women actually remain fixed in the first phase of life, i.e."infantile fixation."

Such individuals can be the victims of Narcissism, a perverse, unhealthy and dangerous form of ''self-love.'' And a narcissistic person attempts to get happiness from life as the infant does - through self-satisfaction, and self-advancement.

Not only that, but narcissistic men and women are self-centered, egotistical, arrogant and demanding.... to the extreme. They also have a massive ENTITLEMENT complex and will take everything they can get (whether they deserve it or not.) Furthermore, giving and self-sacrifice is an alien concept to the narcissist (except if it's in order to get something.)

Ask yourself dove, as a woman who aims to be an IDEAL and seductive woman, does this description fit in any degree to you?

Questions For Every Woman To Ask Herself

Do you want to give to life, or do you demand that life should give to you?

Do you think that people, employees, men, the world.... ''owe'' you?

Moreover, could gratification of self be what you so wrongly call happiness?

If you answered ''yes"to any of these questions, you're not only lacking in emotional intelligence, but you'll find that life becomes difficult.

You''ll constantly be disappointed in friendships and in love. You'll also expect and demand from others what you, yourself, can't, and aren't willing to give.

And if you have a sense of humor and perspective, you'll realize that no one will ever completely give to you - especially their trust and appreciation.

Sadly lovely, the world is full of men and women who are narcissistic infantile, and who suffer ALL of the time. Since they never had the chance to fully develop - emotionally and psychologically - they never could adjust themselves to others, to authority, to the infinite....

Despite being as toxic and as maddening as they come, you really have to feel sorry for narcissistic men and women. They suffer from jealousy and envy. They suffer from a SCARCITY mindset and a belief that there's not enough resources to go around. They suffer from a massive sense of inferiority, as well as from a lack of genuine appreciation.

Interestingly, a narcissist will often tell you that he or she is misunderstood, and even that the reason they're so misunderstood is because they're so special and rare, that no-one can possibly understand them. Furthermore, they're extremely difficult in their relationships, family life, and in business.

Essentially, a narcissistic person is so self-deluded, that ultimately, they drive everyone in their life away. And never grows up.

Ask yourself lovely, if you don't know such people, by the SCORE!

The Good News

Fortunately, when this doesn't apply to you, or to your nearest and dearest, things will go relatively smoothly for you. And when you're a fully developed woman, who has something of real VALUE to offer others the more likely you'll live a fuller, and more delightful and harmonious life.

You'll have your place in the sun, and achieve joy by giving in service to others :-)

In addition, you'll be an emotionally intelligent and COMPLETE woman, not a half-woman - full of fears, insecurity and jealousy. You won't be criticizing or complaining endlessly either (like a narcissistic person does,) and you'll be capable of loyal friendships, relationships, devotion and trust.

The Dangers of Narcissism

Unfortunately for narcissistic men and women, it's not only impossible for others to appreciate them, but to have FAITH in them (due to the damage they're constantly doing to themselves and others.) Furthermore;

1. Narcissistic people are often 'walking disasters'' and drama-queens. I don't say that to be mean dove, I say it because life seems to be in a constant state of upheaval for the narcissist. And daily difficulties usually get blown out of all proportion.

2. The narcissist's social sense and 'El' is poorly-developed. There's not only an inability to get on with others, or to give unconditionally, but an ever-present mental conflict caused by the clashing of the self-gratification urge with the moral sense.

3. The narcissist's feelings of jealousy, envy and being threatened by the satisfaction and success of others are constant. As is the harboring of imaginary grievances and slights.

4. The emotional tone of narcissistic people is almost always unhappy or angry.

5. Narcissists are constantly suspicious, and seeing evil in the most trivial and natural occurrences.

6. Narcissistic men and women form in their mind an unrealistic fantasy of themselves, and live the life of their imaginations; believing themselves to be people of great talent, uniqueness, intellect, beauty, position.... And live according to its rulings (of course, this is a massively inflated image that's out of proportion to reality.)

7. The narcissist over-endows himself/herself with superior or omnipotent attributes - such as power, wit, charm and attraction.

8. The narcissist never sees life as it is. The mind is wasted in ''castle-building,'' in saturating oneself with flattering conceits. And in their forties, narcissistic men and women often become disappointed, sour, jaded and bitter.

**The cause of narcissism lies partly in heredity, partly in the environment, and in the influence of the father, mother, or the mother-substitute.

The Narcissistic Female

The traits of selfishness and narcissism are not only anti-seductive for a woman, but warp her emotionally and intellectually, so that she lacks efficiency and squanders her divine feminine energy.

The female narcissist will be bitter indeed if she's failed to climb the ladder of business/social success. With her fantasy self as the center of attention, and as a leader of business and fashion.

She may also be the ambitious, professional woman who hasn't achieved the pinnacles of success that she originally set out to achieve. And who, twenty years later, disparages her more gifted and successful colleagues (and gives all sorts of unworthy reasons for their success.)

We all have traits of selfishness/narcissism, to a certain degree, but thankfully, not all of us have them in such extremes! Nevertheless, it may still be a good thing to probe our motives from time to time - especially if we find ourselves speaking unkindly of others.

As a feminine, seductive and ideal woman doll, the less admirable feminine traits - such as jealousy, envy and malice - which women do have a tendency to possess, should be discouraged as much as possible.

In addition, a feminine seductress knows that the weeds of character choke the more beautiful feminine qualities - such as kindness, grace The Art of Being a Woman; Feminine Grace, tolerance and empathy.

Let's also remove the rose-colored glasses when we regard ourselves, and slip them in place again when we find ourselves criticizing too harshly the faults of other people! No one's perfect. However, that doesn't mean that we shouldn't be constantly aiming for IMPROVEMENT.

Where Self-Improvement and Psychology Come In

A feminine seductress always aims for self-improvement, the cultivation and development of the more ideal feminine attributes, and she studies (to a certain extent,) psychology.

Everything that a woman can learn from this fascinating subject; the science and study of the mind, can help her to do, and BE, her very best in the world. Furthermore, psychology deals with the emotions, sensations, reasonings, as well as with the subconscious motives and desires.

Self-improvement and development should be on every woman's "to-do" list. It's also a subject of vast importance for any woman who desires to lead a healthier, happier and more useful life. And to satisfy the natural urge for pleasure and to serve others.

Furthermore, the study of psychology and self-improvement/development will help women to adjust themselves to life (as it is,) with its advantages and disadvantages, its pleasure and pain, its joys and sorrows....

However lovely, a lack of simple psychological knowledge, as well as a lack of desire for self-improvement, only creates soul-sick, depressed and dreary men and women - who are a ''drag'' in their friendships and relationships.

Psychology helps us to understand ourselves, to see more clearly our own feelings and faults, and to sympathize with the minds and motives of others. And to ''know thyself,'' and to understand others, is one of the greatest lessons we can learn from life!

Anyhow dove, I do hope you enjoyed my article; 'Emotional Intelligence For Women (And The Dangers Of Narcissism!)

Much love,
Melina xxx

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The Art of Being a Woman; Feminine Grace

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FEW women are endowed with an abundance of Feminine Grace.

The words "grace," "graceful," and "gracious" all stem from the same root. The grace and love of God - without regard to our worthiness.

Being endowed with such grace means being beautiful and serene in every aspect dove.

In;

Your thoughts.

Your living.

Your carriage.

Your movements.

Your interactions with other people.

The way you treat yourself. Many of us have seen a woman who we thought was just ordinary looking, who was even a little bit overweight, but who bagged an Adonis for a husband. This is the woman who often has a Feminine Grace, as well as graciousness, that other women FAIL to acquire.

An inner charm always shows through such women, and a man always notices Feminine Grace, and other such outstanding feminine traits. A truly graceful woman is a woman with a peculiar BALM in her spirit.

She's a serene woman (who's quietly confident of her femininity and beauty,) and draws others in with her calm aura of mystique.

**However, due to the harsher realities of life, there may be a touch of gentle irony in many graceful women - along with the graciousness and sweetness.

Feminine Grace is cultivated and perfected through a special kind of living. The division is also quite obvious between the graceful/gracious woman and ungraceful/ungracious woman.

Nevertheless, the lifestyle of Feminine Grace is easier live than the MODERN version of ''womanhood,'' which often demands of the modern woman more than she should have to bear.

In fact lovely, I adamantly believe a woman's load should be LIGHT. And when you're living life as a truly feminine, graceful and gracious woman, underneath it all, you realize that you're missing nothing essential from life.

Gracefulness, as well as graciousness, isn't something that's on the surface either, it comes from within (and in my opinion, where God's grace and peace has found a nesting place.) In addition, graceful living, as well as giving, grows out of our LOVE and gratitude.

Furthermore, a woman who's classed as feminine and graceful isn't loud, overbearing or highly-strung, ever. And withdraws into her own serenity and pleasure with the garden and her thoughts.

An IRRESISTIBLE woman is not only graceful, but confident and comfortable with what she has - and in her own skin. She may have her little faults and foibles, but she realizes that no one's perfect.

And takes consolation in her more outstanding qualities, while minimizing the flaws and making men feel comfortable and blessed to be around her :-)

The most irresistible women are content with their feminine and graceful appeal, and are CREATIVE in cultivating it. Moreover, they're serene and enjoy each moment of their lives.

Such women can also just read or do some tinkering or crafts, and are never bored or frowning in dissatisfaction.

Which can make a woman look ugly. Their happiness with their lot in life makes graceful women glow from WITHIN. And men see through the outward physical appearance and admire them for their inner radiance and charm.

When you take time to analyze the most ideal women and traits, you'll find that the women who are confident, serene, happy and independent are the types of women that all the quality men want.

When you make a man feel that he makes you happy just by BEING with him, yet you retain your serenity and independence, he'll be able to share more of himself.

To the MALE spirit, Feminine Grace is not only like having a soothing balm of honey applied to all the nooks and crannies, but like being presented with a banquet of sweetness *smile.*

As we're collectively in turmoil with our disappointments and discontents, the feminine soul that's found PEACE is submissive and accepting. And has something so different from others that it works like catnip.

When this superior brand of grace and graciousness finds a response in YOUR heart lovely, you virtually become a 'dove' woman.

Furthermore, your relationships with your man, as well as with your friends and neighbors become harmonious and gracious - in the truest sense.

Kindness, consideration and a loving attitude towards her man, family and peers is what makes a graceful 'dove' woman truly remarkable. These attributes also come from a joy within - as one can't hope to be graceful or gracious without a complete ACCEPTANCE of oneself.

Feminine grace and graciousness also comes from understanding and accepting personal limitations. And in the happiness and satisfaction of being gifted and exemplary.

**This accounts for the peace and serenity in the typical face and expression of dove women (and keeping a hold on the symbol of the dove, a woman can go through her life with an inner peace and serenity :-))

It's sometimes disheartening to learn how our modern women treat themselves, as well as their femininity. In keeping up with the modern world, many women have abandoned dressing up for occasions - and wearing pretty and feminine dresses.

Sadly too, although being serene, gracious and feminine makes the modern teenage girl distinct, it makes her a STRANGER among her peers.

Nevertheless, femininity and Feminine Grace and graciousness isn't really about wardrobe or floral dresses dove. But it definitely isn't about punky dressing, or the hip-hop or hard-rock music style of dressing!

Like femininity, it's is actually an ART form, and the feminine artist achieves that by living a life of serenity, graciousness and elegance. It's also about demonstrating polite and courteous behavior, and using charm and calm logic to go through the travails of daily life.

Feminine Grace and graciousness is exuding love and a bright light to serve as BEACONS to those who want to be near feminine beauty and serenity.

It's feeling good about being a WOMAN, with your inherent limitation and power.

In addition cupcake, the seduction of men is achieved through a gentle manipulation of the mind. And by exhibiting very attractive and ideal qualities that men just can't help falling for!

SEDUCTIVE Feminine Grace is about self-confidence and a high degree of self esteem, knowing you’re a beautiful and loving woman, and that a man just can’t help getting drawn in by your magnetic personality.

Your looks don't really come into this.

The truly feminine and graceful woman knows that she''s a COMPLETE person, no matter what she looks like. She also doesn’t need a man to make her secure, safe and complete but is happy to acknowledge that a member of the opposite sex is meant by nature to complement her.

She's not averse to the idea of a male protector either, and in fact welcomes it, and even seeks a superior specimen *wink.*

However, a woman endowed with feminine grace and seductiveness is empowered by her womanliness, and doesn't use feminine weakness as an excuse.

YES, she knows she can get many advantages by being sweet and adorable, but she's strong, likes what she is, and is comfortable in her role!

In addition, a truly feminine and graceful woman is rather UNIQUE in her being - in the way she dresses and presents herself to the word. Furthermore, she doesn't need to follow trendy styles just to be “in.”

The feminine and graceful woman delights in her individuality, and knows what looks good on her. And what brings out her beauty. She also savors every learning experience to IMPROVE herself, and to make herself superior.

Therefore, she can converse with confidence, showing off her unique knowledge and wisdom.

A wisdom that makes her able to preserve her poise in the world.

The feminine and graceful woman revels in the beauty of the natural world.

She revels in the peace of a SIMPLE life;

The fire burning at night.

The purring of the pussy cat.

The smell of freshly baked bread.

The rising of the sun.

The magic of a rainbow.

The sheen of the dew on the grass....

In addition, taking care of her feminine body, and luxuriating in beauty enhancement lotions and oils to make her skin supple and soft is a hallmark of a feminine and graceful woman.

She knows and accepts what she is, and is very proud of her skin, her features and does everything within her power to beautify herself.

So she can present herself in a serene and gracious manner in public.

The real charm of the woman with feminine grace and graciousness is her inner happiness and contentment - making her glow and her eyes shine.

In addition, her Feminine Grace draws those of the opposite sex to her, basking in her glow.

The graceful and gracious woman doesn't need to rely on other people to make her happy either. She's found various hobbies and productive endeavors to keep her busy and occupied.

There's nothing as anti-seductive, or as boring, in a social situation as a BORED woman dove!

A truly graceful and gracious woman is never bored, but takes joy in the little things of life; little outings, little pleasures, a country drive.... and likes to use her feminine gifts and talents in making others happy.

Anyhow cupcake, I do hope you enjoyed my post; 'The Art of Being a Woman; Feminine Grace.'

Much love, Melina xxx

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How to Kiss Like a Seductress - And Get Fuller and More Seductive Lips

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"Have I not the caresses of my Beloved? I drink upon his lips the coolness of the stars...."

How to Kiss Like a Seductress - Understand the True meaning Of a Kiss!

A kiss is a common way to show affection or to greet someone. However, a passionate and seductive kiss is not only a sensual encounter, but a prelude to something deeper and more penetrating.

Furthermore, for a seductress, a kiss is a UNION not only of the lips, but of the body and emotions.

Admittedly, kissing can be viewed as a path to enticement and temptation, and even as an attempt to lead someone astray by arousing their senses. But in its positive aspects, kissing (and seduction,) is an APPEAL to the other charming someone to return that which is freely given.

There's nothing as sweet and passionate and intoxicating as a KISS received and returned by ones beloved - engulfing one’s rational thoughts. Moreover, how exhilarating dove, to be able to give way to the pull of the senses with our lips.

To be entwined with a beloved, to possess and be possessed by him.... this is NOTHING without kissing. Moreover, a kiss can convey the urgency of the demands of the body to a husband who feels the same way that we
do :-)

The most passionate and seductive kiss communicates LOVE, and the desire and need to be together.

How to Kiss Like a Seductress - Be Approachable, Inviting and Work Your Way Up To the First Kiss

Whether it's your very FIRST kiss, or the first time to kiss this lovely man, you'll usually be experiencing a case of 'first kiss jitters.' However, the good news is that most men feel a little nervous about a first kiss as well, and the attack of uncertainty won't be exclusively yours.

In many cases, a woman has to 'work her way up' to the first kiss by ENCOURAGING the man and boosting his confidence a little. Therefore, if you're really feeling enamored by a man, make certain you're looking approachable and inviting.

The first things you'll need to do if you want a man to KISS you, is;

Move closer to him.

Keep your arms uncrossed.

Keep your hands away from your face.

When the moment seems right, look at his face, and then into his eyes, a little expectantly.

Inconspicuously take a breath.

Occasionally move your gaze briefly and subtly to the man's lips.

Smile demurely, take another breath, (and hope that he takes the HINT, and approaches for the kiss!)

After doing these things, most men will find the courage to kiss a woman they're attracted to :-))

Besides your eyes, your LIPS are an indication of your character and expression, and the formation of your lips (more than than the actual size of your mouth,) forms quite an accurate indication of your personality.

A small mouth can be cute dove, and denote taste and refinement, but the unexpectedness of a SMILE will only add to its intrinsic beauty ;-))

However, THIN lips pressed firmly together, denote meanness and bitterness, and if a woman has any of those traits of character, they're often impressed on her LIPS.

A thin hard mouth can easily provoke an enemy! Yet thankfully, all mean expressions on a woman's face will become insignificant when her character is IDEAL.

On the other hand, warmth and sensuality is easily attributed to the FULLER more luscious types of mouths. And when the character and expressions are fine, puffy, pink and kissable lips only seem to give them a more generous glow.

In addition, RELAX your lip muscles lovely, and subtly parting your lips will make them look bigger ;-)

A seductress does all that she can to make her lips look more inviting and kissable, as well as fuller!

Besides lip-plumping cosmetics (which are often expensive and over-rated,) there are things you can do at home, and the ingredients may already be in your kitchen, to make your lips appear bigger, redder and more seductive (more about that later.)

Furthermore, to work your way up to the FIRST kiss with a man, and the best thing to do is start with lots of hugging! Hug a man until the feelings of affection and passion naturally flow. And until both of you are unable to resist each other’s lips.

By the way dove, when a man's REALLY enamored by you, but a little bit shy with women, he may start with little kisses to your forehead, your cheeks and your eyelids.

How to Kiss Like a Seductress - Learn to Be a Good Kisser

Before your first kiss with a man, begin by moistening your lips (with gloss or your your tongue first,) and do the previous steps (to look approachable and to hint that you want to be kissed :-))

When he's responding favorably to you, lean in a bit, and approach his lips slowly, with your face at an ANGLE. Maintain eye contact while doing so, but when your faces are almost completely together, close your eyes (while puckering your lips slightly, and then opening your lips a bit.)

**Most people prefer to kiss with their eyes CLOSED. However, some prefer to keep their eyes open while kissing a partner (but I think that could make them look rather cross-eyed. Don't you agree?)

When your lips have finally touched, either gently start kissing the man's upper and lower lip with both of your lips, or follow the man's LEAD.

During this step, you'll need to parting your lips a little, so that your partner's top or bottom lip will be going between the both of your lips. Then, apply a little bit of pressure with your lips on his, while gently PULLING on his top or bottom lip with yours.

Keep alternating this process (and the man will usually be kissing your opposite lip in return,) but make sure not to be applying too much FORCE or pressure cupcake!

**As long as a kiss isn't forceful or sloppy, it should be enjoyable. And the best kisses can go on for hours.

How to Kiss Like a Seductress - Learn How to French Kiss

A French kiss is almost the POETRY of kissing; a kiss of wanting, needing and exploring. Moreover, this is an open-mouth kiss, and the most sensual and passionate kiss there is.

A seductress naturally loves French kissing, and may kiss her man like she can't get ENOUGH of him - and like she may never get to see him, or kiss him, again.

In addition, some married couples are so ruled by their passion and desire for each other, that when it's unleashed, it can be so magical and delicious that they just can’t STOP (or seem to get enough.)

To French kiss a man, start by kissing him in the almost closed-mouth manner that I described previously, but the first time, you may have to brush your tongue slightly across the man's lips to convey that you want a French kiss!

Furthermore dove, with French kissing, you have to open your mouth a little bit wider, while gently pushing the tip of your TONGUE into the man's mouth - until the tips of your tongues meet.

Then, you start gently moving and brushing the tip of your tongue against his (alternating taking the lead) - and exploring his mouth with your tongue (don't forget to breathe.)

The tongue is also a very sensitive organ, so French kissing can be very pleasurable - but never probe a man's mouth with a stiff tongue (keep your tongue supple,) or put your tongue too FAR in his mouth!

I'll also add that excessive saliva can build up during French kissing, which is a big turn-off for most people, so periodically swallow it. Moreover French Kissing is meant to be done SLOWLY.

Besides kissing, you can put your hand/s on your man's back, shoulder, neck, face or in his hair, while you're kissing him. And after kissing your man slowly and passionately with your lips and tongue - and reciprocating his actions - pull your tongue away from his for a bit.

The next step is to repeat the kiss. Furthermore, you can start gently sucking on your man's lip/s - even nibbling on them. And when you pull away from the kiss, lightly suck on his lip as you PART.

The second, and subsequent times you French kiss a man, you can push your tongue a little further into his mouth - breathing deeply all the while. A great kisser also knows that kissing is about 'give-and-take' - and responding with fervor.

**The more you kiss a man, and practice doing it with him, the BETTER you'll get at it! And thankfully, a bad kisser can become a really good kisser is they genuinely want to.

How to Kiss Like a Seductress - Be Tentative, and Then, Bold and Confident!

A seductress really loves to kiss her man when he kisses her - but will hold back from time to time just to make him breathless for MORE. Therefore, she may kiss him on the cheek and just on the edges of his lips at first, and give him tentative quick pecks.

If her man wants to take it further, she'll be prepared. She'll lean into him a bit (showing she's a bit hesitant but not really averse to being kissed,) and open her mouth slightly, in a provocative way.

When her man moves in suddenly to start the kiss, she doesn't gobble him up right away dove *giggle*- but just opens her mouth tentatively as if she's unsure. The, she closes her eyes, and the kiss progresses by itself.

**When it's with a man you have CHEMISTRY with, a kiss will always pick up intensity and passion on its own. And become bold and confident!

How to Kiss Like a Seductress - Have Soft, Kissable Lips and Fresh Breath

The cherry ripeness of a seductress's lips, are charming to every male beholder. But when a man is CRAZY about you, and you turn him on, his desire will not only be to arouse your senses, but to penetrate your mouth, taste your tongue, run his tongue over your lips and make you quiver with delight :-)

In addition, a deep, passionate and sensual kiss (such as French kissing,) usually means that you'll be exchanging saliva. Therefore, you must prepare yourself for this delightful onslaught by making sure your lips are soft, your mouth tastes SWEET - and that your breath is totally fresh and clean.

Ensure that your lips are SMOOTH and moist - not dry, cracked or chapped (not a good look for any seductress!) You should also be exfoliating your lips daily, and be regularly applying a medicated lip balm - or a lip gloss infused with silicone or peptides - to keep them soft and healthy.

I personally like to use Lucas Paw Paw Ointment as a nightly moisturizer for my lips :-)

To EXFOLIATE the lips, I have two methods. The first is to use brown sugar. With wet fingertips, I move the sugar granules (in constant small circular motions,) over the entire surface of my lips. Then, I rinse (and am left with a lingering sugary sweetness on my lips.)

The second method is to apply Lucas Paw Paw Ointment (or Vaseline) to my lips and brush over my lips with a toothbrush for about 15 seconds. This exfoliation method will remove ALL the chapped skin on your lips - which isn't seductive.

Speaking of seductive, there's nothing as anti-seductive on a woman, or as a turn-off, as BAD breath! Naturally poor dental hygiene, tooth decay and abscesses cause an odorous breath, as does too much acid in the stomach.

However, a seductress will do all that she can to AVOID having bad breath, and take excellent care of her teeth and gums - with good dental hygiene. She'll also see her dentist - regularly.

For good dental hygiene, your toothbrush should be of good quality, and be renewed at least monthly. The bristles should be moderately stiff and uneven in size, so that their shape conforms to the lines of the teeth.

In order to remove food particles retained between the teeth, the brush should be used with an up and down movement (and special attention given to the point where the gums and teeth meet.)

Another good way of removing food from the crevices of the teeth is to fill the mouth with warm salty water, and by suction, force the particles out. Dental floss is also a very effective method of removing foreign substances from the teeth.

If a woman's teeth and stomach are HEALTHY, the chances are that the breath emanating from her mouth will be sweet. However, when bad breath is caused by stomach problems, a dentist should be consulted and your diet adjusted by a naturopath.

Got a date coming up soon, cupcake? If you're anticipating being kissed by that cutie, make sure you have mints or pink/red candies on hand - so that your mouth will smell, and even taste, sweet. Candies and mints will also make your lips moist and slightly tinted with color.

Furthermore, you can buy lip moisteners or flavored lip glosses (such as strawberry and cherry flavored lip-gloss) in drug stores and supermarkets. Moreover, do make sure to wear a tint and flavor of lip gloss/lipstick that your boyfriend or husband likes.

How to Kiss Like a Seductress - Get Fuller and More Seductive Lips

For men, when a woman's mouth is beautiful in shape and expression, and is pink or red in color, it's a JOY to behold. Moreover, a feminine woman with a puffy 'bee-stung' pout (like Angelina Jolie or Kim Kardashian,) is almost always considered to be desirable by men.

Such a look is popular with women as well. And the first rule of getting fuller and more seductive lips, is to choose a color of lipstick and/or lip-gloss that's PALER than your own natural lip color.

Kim Kardashian favors this particular look, and to get it, she uses the Mac lipstick in the color; 'Angel/Soft,' and NARS Lip Gloss in the shade; 'Turkish Delight.'

In addition, there's nothing more forbidding than a crimson streak of thin expressionless lips! However, you can transform a thin pair of lips to a fuller and more shapely contour by lining them with a neutral lip-liner - that's just slightly darker than your own lip color.

Furthermore, you can apply a dab of pearly white highlighter, or lip-gloss, to the center of your bottom lip to make it appear fuller. Moreover, you can blend a small dab of pearly white highlighter above the cupid's bow of your lips to make them look more seductive.

You can take it even further by learning how to draw a 'shadow line' under your bottom lip - in the center area. Study pictures of celebrities - such as kim Kardashian, Angelina Jolie and Paris Hilton (who all have full pouty lips) - to understand the effect I'm talking about :-)

If your mouth is wide, like Julia Roberts, apply a DEEPER shade of lipstick to the very center of your lips. Choose a shade that's deeper than what's used on the rest of your mouth, and so the makeup is heavier in the center.

When making up your mouth, never extend the color beyond the outer edges of the mouth - in the hope of widening it. This merely presents a grotesque effect when your face is seen in profile.

Homemade Lip-plumping Recipe - For Plump, Rosy CHERRY Lips (No lipstick Needed!)

Want to get CHERRY LIPS - lips like a seductress - and make them fuller and more seductive dove? Would you also like to be able to minimize the use of lipstick by having 'naturally' rosy lips? Then, try this homemade lip-plumping recipe!

Ingredients;

Vaseline

Table salt

Cinnamon powder (lip-plumpers such as 'Lip Venom' often use cinnamon to increase circulation in the lips and make them swell.)

Red/pink food coloring or a cut piece of raw beetroot

You'll also need;

A small pot with a lid

A lip brush

Tissues

Preparation Method;

In a small pot, put some Vaseline. Add a half a teaspoon each of salt and cinnamon to the Vaseline.

Stir and blend.

Now, with your fingertips, apply the mixture to your lips, rubbing and exfoliating them WELL. You'll soon notice that your lips will become tingly and puffier from the cinnamon.

Leave the mixture on your lips for 5-7 minutes, and then wipe off with a tissue.

Using a lip brush, dip the tip of the lip brush into a bottle of red/pink food coloring - or into the juice of a freshly cut beetroot.

Apply the coloring generously (so the color will last a few days,) and evenly to your lips.

Leave the color on your lips to stain them overnight. In the morning, after you've brushed your teeth etc, add a slick of Vaseline, Lucas Paw Paw Ointment or lip-gloss to your lips.

Anyhow cupcake, I do hope you enjoyed my article; 'How to Kiss Like a Seductress - And Get Fuller and More Seductive Lips.'

Much love,
Melina xxx

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