Showing posts with label The Natural. Show all posts
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Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Seduction Archetypes and Seducer Types In The Art of Seduction

Even before the concept of seduction archetypes and seducer types became popular, even before the art of seduction became a popular subject, the historical enchantresses, with their philters and enthrallments were FABULOUS.

At a time when women were generally too passively indifferent (and passe,) to attempt to entice and captivate men, a natural born/self-made seductress displayed the ULTIMATE lures of attraction.

In the charm of their voices, in the grace of their manners, in the perfume of their lips, in their use of unguents, in their desire to please (they were devoted to the high art of it,) there was a subtlety of seduction so new and unimagined, it was MAGICAL.

The stories of the world's greatest seductresses; with their mind-spells, refinements and consequent dominations, were all due to their vast knowledge of the art of seduction.) And exerted gradually an influence that was as wide as it was profound.

Yet, up to today, the philosophy of their special world, and of the 'Ars Amatoria,' has been privy to a select FEW only. Feminissima - School of Feminine Arts

Practically every courtesan, geisha and royal mistress in history embraced a certain 'seduction archetype' - or archetypes. Not only that, but the most famous seductress women in history were gorgeous HYBRID personalities, and had a combination of qualities that men like best.

In addition, these charmeuses would cultivate and hone their feminine charms to PERFECTION. And with their unsupassable feminine wiles, suggested a kind of magic - and perhaps it was a kind of magic dove - for almost every seductress in history has had some sort of power to hypnotize.

They also captivated men by their image, presence, imagination and performance.... and in the process, elicited the rapt attention, imagination and adoration of many men. Their charms, as well as feminine wiles were;

Flirtatious
Coquettish
Physically luscious
Entertaining
Exciting
Emotionally touching
Intellectually stimulating
Imaginatively beguiling
Magical

Every modern seductress, worth her salt, should learn how to hypnotize a man, and identify herself with a particular seduction archetype or seducer type that MATCHES her own natural qualities. Then, she should further develop her powers of attraction from those qualities.

Since the time of Plato, there have been archetypes - but psychological archetypes, as a concept, were advanced in 1919 by the Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung. In the advances of this psychological framework there were five main archetypes;

The self
The shadow
The anima
The animus
The persona

Out of these concepts, there arose some notable archetypal images that have been recurring in various written works and research throughout the years. These archetypes are;

The child
The hero
The great mother
The wise old man
The sage
The trickster or the fox
The devil or Satan
The scarecrow
The mentor

Then, there came out various books about the art of seduction various seduction archetypes/seducer types. One author put forward nine seducer types, another said that there are seven - and another, six.

Whatever or whoever we choose to believe, we at least want to know the basic character traits coming from deep within ourselves - and from an individual - that brings out a seductive PULL. Moreover, when we've identified ourselves with a certain seduction archetype, we can develop our powers of attraction from our own natural qualities.

Thankfully, nature hasn't endowed us all with the very same attributes, and when we've recognized our gifts, we can ADD to them, develop our traits around them, and add mystery and charm to our personality. Now, let's take a look at the seduction archetypes and seducer types....

Seduction Archetype - The Ideal Lover

The ideal lover is the man or woman who embodies every one's dreams. Many have felt disillusioned because their dream man or woman, who they'd been fantasizing about since their teens, seemed to be just a figment of their imaginations. Then an ideal lover comes along that offers them everything they've ever wanted; adventure, romance, a spiritual and emotional connection, physical and intellectual stimulation.....

The ideal lover is an exceptionally multi-dimensional individual, and knows what a target wishes for and is able to play the role EXACTLY as the present man or woman wishes it to be. I suggest that all women try to become and ideal lover and I show you how to become an ideal lover in my online seduction academy for women;
Feminissima - School of Feminine Arts

Seduction Archetype - The Dandy

The dandy is the rather mysterious and ambiguous man or woman who can't be 100% accurately categorized - as an individual or gender - and doesn't seem to fall into any stereotypical male or female type. And even if these individuals are heterosexual, their vibes may be slightly homosexual.

The male or female dandy is not only conscious of their image, but of the way that they project themselves. Many dandies give off overtones of self-absorption and vanity, and seem to be selfish, not caring much about others.

The difficulty in categorizing a dandy, and in stirring them emotionally, make them desirable and a challenge to many men and women.

Seduction Archetype - The Natural

The natural is sincere, spontaneous and exhibits un-pretentiousness - all childlike traits evoking joyfulness and innocence. This trait is particularly attractive to the men and women who've had enough of the rakes, the dandies and the sirens.

Many modern men and women find the naturals refreshing and adorable. Furthermore,
a person will allow them self to fall for the natural because they want someone who they can trust and make them feel at ease.

Seduction Archetype - The Coquette

Coquettes are people who always play 'hard to get' in relationships. They're alternately hot and cold with the opposite sex, and may refuse to commit themselves fully. Moreover, they may trap a target emotionally by confusing them, and keep pushing and pulling them so that they're kept dangling on a string.

This seducer type is generally self-contained, self-involved, even a little narcissistic, leaving little space for other people in their lives. Coquettes are essentially distant and cold beings, but will suddenly warm up and give attention when you're least expecting them to. Only to take it swiftly away again.

It's true that we essentially want what we can't have, and this is the pull of the coquette. Strangely too, people seem to crave most for the coquettes - and for the attention that this type aren't willing to give!
The Seduction Secrets of a Coquette

Seduction Archetype - The Charmer

Many charmers seem to instinctively know how to provide pleasure and comfort for their targets, and due to their warm sunny personalities, are people magnets. The world also bestows its favors on the charmer, and such an individual is always in demand.
Charm Warfare – The Art of Charm for Seductresses

Natural charmers can create the kind of atmosphere which, perhaps unconsciously, diffuses itself into everything around them. However, the wiliness and real intentions of some charmers are often masked, and they're experts at adapting to the moods of their targets and making them dependent on them.

The charmer is a seducer type that makes him or herself USEFUL, provides fun and pleasure, and promotes peace, harmony and ease. This type is very popular with both sexes, even when plain to look at, and knows how to deflect attention away from himself/herself - concentrating instead, on the object of their desire.

Seduction Archetype - The Charismatic

The charismatic is magnetic,
exciting, and virtually pulsates with energy. These types are confident, look and feel content and have a huge sense of purpose. Many charismatics have a gift of energizing others and people of both sexes gravitate to them.

Seduction seems to flow to the charismatic. Like a moth's drawn to a FLAME, because it just can't help itself, a man or woman is drawn to a charismatic.

Charismatics are so desirable as a whole because they're so energizing and extraordinary. They also have that elusive 'X factor' or 'It' factor. You can learn the exact components that make up charisma in my charm warfare course ;-)

Seduction Archetype - The Siren

The siren is a very POTENT seduction archetype, a character who cleverly uses her instincts and inclinations to elicit certain responses in men. In doing so, the siren becomes associated with a mystical brand of sexuality and pleasure, and helps her targets to come up with the actual details of their fantasy of her, all on their own!

The siren’s under no illusion that a man is hers by destiny. She takes him captive as a matter of biological course, and knows that he's hers only so long as the mood will last. And she makes the mood last, but only because she's made it her VOCATION to sustain that mood by whatever means she has.

The siren is hard to get and coquettish to the hilt, always, but she’s not afraid to take the first and second and third step - in order to encourage a man and make him DREAM about her.

Sirens are so good at using their feminine wiles, that most men get permanently caught in their lairs (and behave obediently, fully submitting to them.)
The Art of Being a Siren

This seducer type is irresistible to many men.

Seduction Archetype - The Feminine Enigma

The feminine enigma is mysterious to men, always, and is a most enchanting seducer type. As for a bona fide seductress, she knows that the female should always be mysterious the male (sadly, most women are the complete opposite.)

A seductress also knows that a man’s impressions of her are set early in the game, and that she must be perceived as mysterious and ‘special’ - from the moment he lays eyes on her.

Seductress women in history, such as Lola Montez, embraced mystery, ambiguity and elusiveness. They not only saw themselves as unusual - but as something almost magical. They also didn't expect men to understand them, and were happy that men looked at them differently!

Feminine mystique is a one of the most powerful weapons in a seductress's arson. It’s it's a very rare and precious thing, and something that no man or psychology can ever explain. And when you're a mysterious creature, you’re fascinating, and men will be mystified.
The Art of Mystique - for Seductresses

Seduction Archetype - The Rake

Naturally dove, the rake (or the 'bad boy') is a seducer type that doesn't apply to a woman - however I'd still like to include this archetype in order to make you aware of it. A rake is a man who loves life’s pleasures, in particular, 'sinful pleasures,' and indulges himself heartily.

He's a connoisseur of women, and although women instinctively dislike his overboard and grandiose style of seducing, as well as his rather slippery character traits, few females can resist his potent brand of masculinity.

Although the rake often juggles several women at once, or is a cheater, he may not always hide his conquests. And each woman tends to believe that she is his true soul mate, and will eventually change and be reformed by her.

A rake is also so seductive to women because he treats the girl of the moment like she's the most beautiful and SPECIAL woman alive, and that there's no one quite like her. Such is the power and pull of the rake.

Anyhow cupcake, I do hope you enjoyed my article; 'Seduction Archetypes and Seducer Types In The Art of Seduction.'

Much love,
Melina xxx

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Wednesday, April 6, 2011

The Seductive Mindset of a Seductress


Women weren’t born “seductresses” dove, and only a few are able to capitalize on their feminine attributes and become a truly seductive and enchanting woman.

See the definition of seductress here, in case you haven't already;
What is a Seductress?

In addition, it takes a wily mind and considerable talent and confidence to become a successful seductress. When it happens, a man can become so overcome by you and vulnerable, that he’ll promise you the heaven and the earth - and all things in between!

Some women are so irresistible and seductive - without any conscious effort in their thoughts and behavior. They’re usually the ones who developed their seductiveness at a fairly young age, and found out quite accidentally that they could manipulate boys just with a coquettish look.

Then, in the years to come, they went on to fully develop their powers of seduction and feminine enchantment.

The idea of being irresistible and seductive to men comes from the core being of a woman - a FEMININE and sensual woman. However cupcakes, some women are not feminine or sensual at all, even though they possess the potential to be that way, somewhere, deep down in their souls.

On the other hand, some women do manage to tap into and UNLEASH their their latent femininity and sensuality, and to explore their inner cores. And in the process, projecting a new sense of womanliness, of voluptuousness, of seductiveness ….

There are a few women who attempt to be sensual and seductive by wearing overly revealing clothes. But sensuality and seductiveness is never about the things that we wear or show to the outside world. It’s about the way we feel inside; an attitude and a seductive MINDSET.

Modern seductresses have come to grips with that, as well as their doubts and indecision, and are confident that they’re on an equal footing with their husbands - and can pursue their sexual and emotional gratification.

The seductive mindset is the knowledge that you're a woman who can LEAD a man to where you want to go - and deliver pleasure to him. It’s the freedom to be yourself, to revel in your femininity and to pursue sensual delights with a husband who’s your equal.

However cupcakes, if you’re projecting a phony persona or pretending to be a seductress, forget it. It won’t have the same effect. A seductress must be AUTHENTIC at being seductive, as well as a 'natural;' The Natural

If you’re a TRUE seductress, who’s on an equal footing with your man, he’ll be attached to you - body and soul - and he'll be happy to share with you potentially countless days and nights. In the natural order of things, men and women crave each others company, and will luxuriate in a true intimacy and passion with a member of the opposite sex.

Furthermore, men and women were designed to complement each other in marriage, to join their bodies and souls, and merge together for a complete whole. Of course there are some women who can remain single and be somewhat fulfilled, but most women crave male companionship ALL of their lives.

When you’re ready, when you cultivate your femininity and get a seductive mindset, you’ll find men who'll want you not only for your seductive appeal but because you have inherent POWER over them.

You can gain access to that power here; Feminissima - School of Feminine Arts

Now, s
ome women were born pretty dove, even beautiful, but there are various degrees of attraction that appeal to men.

Besides physical attraction, most men look for sexual chemistry, compatibility, a certain mindset and SUBSTANCE in a woman - that particular substance will make a woman a lot more desirable than other women.

This mindset and substance are fairly unique things to find in a woman, and will almost certainly be discovered by a very unique man who'll seem destined to be with her alone.

By the way, substance is not about wealth and material possessions but an inner wealth of vitality, character and disposition. Furthermore, this "glow of beauty" emanates from a woman’s very core, and can’t be extinguished.

It’s also the product of a sensitivity, and a woman's deep understanding of herself and the universe.

A woman of substance is irresistible and enchanting.

In addition, you'll need to devise an action plan where you can feel pride in yourself as a feminine and seductive woman. You'll need to work on cultivating a seductive mindset, as well as seductive attitude and appearance.

By the way, you can learn how to get a seductive appearance here;
The Art of Beautification for Seductresses

Then, you'll need to start acting like there’s no tomorrow, and living only for the present time (and enjoying the serendipity as it comes :-))

All of this will result in an irresistible new you - inside and OUT.

Now, let’s take a look at an action plan I’ve devised, to help you access your seductive inner self and project it outwards. To regain your status as a powerful and seductive woman, there are steps to harness that inner substance in you;

  1. Visualization can be very powerful for a woman, and done consistently, can help her to completely reprogram her mind with positive affirmations, and get rid of any self-limiting beliefs. Several times a day, imagine yourself as an extremely powerful, loving and seductive woman, who’s ALWAYS that way. Visualize yourself in all kinds of scenarios with a man and as has having a lot of power in your relationship. Moreover, visualize how you'll always react and respond to your man with your new seductive mindset and attitude.

  1. Seduce YOURSELF; in order to seduce a man, a woman must first and foremost seduce herself!

  1. Watch some movies that have seductive women as central figures. Some examples are; Elizabeth Taylor in “Cleopatra,” Reri in “Tabu: A Story of the South Seas,” and Sophia Loren in “Sobato.”

  1. Re-align your thoughts and believe with every fiber of your being that you’re a powerful, loving and seductive woman who oozes femininity, sensuality, voluptuousness…. Believing yourself to be a powerful, loving and seductive woman will reinforce your subconscious mind, giving you a seductive mindset and attitude, as well as bring you the confidence you need to attract quality men.

  1. Forgive yourself for every dating and relationship mistake you’ve ever made. Forgive the men who've caused you pain. Guilt and unhappiness are not ideal for kick-starting a new seductive mindset - or for a seductress-in-training's re-alignment process! To get rid of any guilt, try to make up for it somehow, squelching it with your thoughts. And stop beating yourself up over past mistakes and failures.

  1. Work on your confidence with subliminal exercises, you can find those here; The Feminine Art of Confidence Program Learn to accept constructive criticism without it rattling you, and gain something valuable from it. Make yourself be more assertive than usual, and learn to say “no” in a non-aggressive way. Believe in yourself and your worth!
I do hope you enjoyed my article; 'The Seductive Mindset of a Seductress.'

Much love,

Melina xxx



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Sunday, March 27, 2011

The Natural

"Be yourself . . . and everybody will like you." Ever heard that before dove? I thought so. It's a little over-used, but it's still a GOOD piece of advice. And does it mean doing just as you please and not caring what other people think? That's right!

As long what you do isn't immoral, as long as you're not hurting anyone or interfering with anyone's happiness or life, then yes, do as you please.

Love life and live in the moment, not caring what others think. All your anxieties will vanish!

Be authentic in the way you express yourself. It will give you a sense of freedom, spontaneity
and joy.

This is the philosophy of 'The Natural,' a seduction archetype.

If you live in a small town,
let everybody know you - but for your flair, your vivacity and your personality, and as a woman who dares to be herself. You're not trying to make everyone like you and you're not trying to be a person that everyone will approve of.

You're simply being yourself with no attachment to the outcome.

You may know a woman who everybody praises. You've heard a lot of talk about her - her confidence, her assurance, her poise. You wish you could acquire these attributes.

Well you CAN!

However cupcake, you'll never be such a woman if you fear that eyes are constantly on you, checking up on you, making comparisons and finding fault.

You must be detached from what others may be thinking.

A woman with
confidence, assurance and feminine poise is a woman who's mastered the art of being a woman. She's also a woman who doesn't care about who's watching her, why they're watching her or their catty remarks.

In addition, she doesn't attach much importance to their approval either, because she's too caught up in the moment - and in CREATING.


'The natural' doesn't care too much about what others have to say because the input of others may only bring cacophony to the music she's trying to make. If you have an original idea, don't waste your time and effort trying to make people understand. They probably won't. And the help you'll get comes in the form of negative feedback.

In addition dove, start recording your dreams. Aren't some of them just the most colorful and 'way out' scenarios your conscious mind has ever concocted? If you've had these dreams before, and I'm sure you have, this only shows you the untapped power of creation you have lying within.

Take the philosophy of The Natural; be authentic, imaginative, open, childlike, cute, playful, spontaneous, honest and sincere. You'll have nothing to fear and have no reason to feel uncomfortable with anyone.

Being a 'natural ' is a seduction archetype, and makes you a most seductive woman!

In addition, when you live the life of a natural, and live authentically, you may find that you develop an interconnected sense of being. When you're true to who you are, living your purpose and sharing your gifts and talents with the world around you, you give back in service.

I do hope you enjoyed my article about the seduction archetype; 'The Natural!'

Much Love'
Melina xxx

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