Thursday, June 16, 2011

The Ideal Lover - The Art of Seduction

"Most people have dreams in their youth that get shattered or worn down with age. They find themselves disappointed by people, events, reality, which cannot match their youthful ideals.

Ideal Lovers thrive on people’s broken dreams, which become lifelong fantasies.

You long for romance? Adventure? Lofty spiritual communion? The ideal Lover reflects your fantasy.

He or she is an artist in creating the illusion your require. In a world of disenchantment and baseness, there is a limitless seductive power in following the path of the Ideal Lover." - Robert Greene (The Art of Seduction.)

Every person dreams of an IDEAL LOVER, the one who fulfills our every fantasy and desire. This dream is the subconscious expression of the existent desire for a stronger, larger and more expanded self....

Deep down in EVERY (straight) man's psyche is the ever-present fantasy woman, who's not only the best living individual for him, but the only woman he could share a life with. And when you study the art of seduction like I have, you'll realize that this has little to do with the way a woman looks, or with sex!

It's sad that so many men (and women) feel like their living their lives without that ultimate level of attraction in their relationships, and to live in a place where they have to give up the aspiration of ever meeting an equal-to-us person of the opposite sex.

We may be able to live our lives without suffering, if we don't end up meeting our Ideal Lovers (IL's,) and we may end up settling in our relationship, but the subconscious desire to do so exists in every man and woman. And unless a female lover can fulfill every quality of that feminine ideal for a MAN, he won't be truly satisfied.

This is the reason that so many men keep changing lovers, and why so many can feel sexual attraction (but not ultimate attraction,) to former lovers. However, when we learn, and master the art of seduction, and become seductresses, this can certainly become a thing of the past *wink.*

When a man's attracted to a woman, but feels in the meantime the possibility of an attraction to another woman, she's NOT his Ideal Lover. A man is also constantly aware of - subconsciously or consciously - the image of his IL.

Even if he decides to date a woman exclusively, and keeps on seeing and sleeping with her exclusively, emotionally he'll drift further away from her with each passing week/month or year.

In this particular case, reasoning plays no part in a man's mind. Something ELSE does.

When a man senses that a woman's not his Ideal lover, subconsciously he'll be looking again and again into the eyes of every good-looking woman he sees, and when I say ''good-looking,'' I'm not referring to physical looks (more about that in my seductress training.)

However, true lovers REMAIN together, for life, and are loyal and faithful with each other. True lovers aren't bound by expectations or conditions either. They're bound by the permanent mutuality of their attraction.

They also feel that their union to be natural, and a mutual feeling of compromise exists between them. And they're 'forced' by that recognition to be true to each other :-)

Do you want to experience the ultimate MUTUAL attraction with the one you want, dove?

Would you like to be able to meet your man's every need and desire, and be his 'Ideal Lover,' the woman he'll NEVER leave??

You can discover the true art of seduction (the Ars Amatoria,) and the secrets of the world's greatest seductress women here;

Feminissima School of Feminine Arts

Much Love,
Melina xxx 

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