Saturday, April 30, 2011

Secrets of the Most Seductive Women

Men have always had different ideals of what’s considered to be beautiful, attractive, desirable and SEDUCTIVE in women.

Here’s an example dove; in the 1600s,
ideal female beauty and seductiveness was attributed to the plump, voluptuous and Rubenesque women.

During, and after WWII, curvaceous (but very slim-waisted,) women, who had big eyes and great legs, were deemed as embodying ideal feminine beauty and seductiveness.

These days, women who are willowy, big busted and long-legged (with pretty faces and long hair,) are deemed most to be the most seductive women because these are considered to be ‘perfect’ physical attributes on women.

Although having these ideal physical attributes will put you in league with the BEAUTIES, there’s no yardstick or weighing apparatus to accurately measure if you conform to the standard of ideal female beauty and seductiveness or not. That’s also because the standard is a subjective thing - in both the viewer and yourself.

However lovely, when you think of yourself as BEAUTIFUL and seductive, and behave as if you’re a beautiful and seductive woman, no matter how pretty or plain you are, you’ll be projecting yourself as beautiful - and your male audience will perceive and believe that you’re beautiful :-)

In her younger days, Barbara Streisand certainly couldn't be called a classic beauty, but she had this enigmatic seductive personality, and of course she sings like an ANGEL - which helped made her ‘divinely beautiful.’

Cher wasn’t a classic beauty, or perfect female beauty either, but there’s something about her EXOTIC appeal that still charms and entices her male audience today. Furthermore, her huge, dark and luminous Armenian eyes speak volumes.

Now cupcake, why are the most seductive women associated with being beautiful or pretty? Well naturally, being a seductive woman is related to attracting the opposite sex. It’s also the natural reaction of men, who are predominantly VISUAL, to be attracted to ideal feminine beauty.

However, most men aren’t initially attracted to beauty as a WHOLE, but to wisps and traces of it leading to the whole. Some men will also get a glimpse or a whiff of something attractive in a woman, that makes them glance back and inhale again (and sometimes they’re seduced forever ;-))

As you’re probably already aware, most women’s magazines are dedicated to beautifying women, and are filled with advertisements for beauty enhancing products, tips on dressing, putting on make-up, exercising for a slimmer silhouette and everything else for a woman to become pretty and desirable and sexy.

In addition, any woman can become ethereally beautiful, but if she’s cold inside or arrogant, FORGET it! Her coldness and arrogance will always be showing through, and arrogance is a hallmark of the unsure.

Moreover, a truly beautiful woman has a passion for life; an inner force that radiates in her personality - and a readiness and enthusiasm for the challenges and pleasures of daily life.

The most feminine and seductive women not only know that the differences between a male and a female are DISTINCT (and should be distinct) - but can see it in the biology of animals. We have our distinct place as women in this world, doll, as decreed by nature.

We can try to fight the disparity some of the time, but nature (and the ovaries and the testes,) dictate how we should basically conform *giggle* When nature has it’s way, the men pursue, and the women get wooed and pursued. Furthermore, the woman will either reject a suitor, or will accept him (ideally on her terms.)

A woman also OWNS the sexual power if she’s a feminine and seductive woman and she’s desired by a man.

However, a feminine and seductive woman can’t let herself relax too much, or let herself go for that matter. No! She always needs to be her most seductive self - and even primp and strut a little when she’s competing with other women for the “strongest, handsomest and ablest” alpha male *wink*

The way to a man's heart is by the SENSES. If you please his eyes, and all the rest, half the work is done. In addition, a woman who possesses the great art of PLEASING, of gaining the affections of those she converses with, possesses an attribute which facilitates and helps her rise.

Sadly, few young women realize how powerful this feminine art is, and as they grow older and wiser, strive to recover what they lost by negligence. And pride, self-absorption and inattention are the main culprits.

Truly, in the game and art of seduction, the WOMAN can hold all of the cards (and if you do follow my advice, a man is destined to be fascinated and enamored!)

Moreover, most women just need to know how to become their most seductive selves, to learn The Seductive Way (Ars Amatoria,) Feminissima - School of Feminine Arts and to awaken and sharpen their inborn skills.

**Just remember dove, that the woman next to you may have sharper claws and better sharpening stones, than you do!

Now, after reading my post, I want you to look at yourself critically in the mirror and assess yourself. What needs improving or changing? Where do you stand now?

Furthermore, ask your friends what they think of you. Once you know what needs improving/changing about your looks, start working on yourself, beauty-wise, from head to toe.

You may decide to get a more feminine and flattering hair style and to make your hair glow and shine.

To become the most seductive woman, find the beauty products, cosmetics and make-up that will;

Make you eyes bigger and more luminous.

Make your lashes longer and thicker.

Reduce, heal or camouflage your blemishes.

Give definition to your nose.

Tint and color your cheeks.

.... and all those other little tricks that will help to beautify the face. You can get some great tips here
The Art of Beautification for Seductresses

I also want you to start using a good moisturizer or serum for your face and neck. Don’t forget the neck because you can keep your face pretty and tight with the aid of cosmetics, but as you age, the telltale signs of aging first show up on your neck.

Have some pretty and feminine underwear. Even if you’re wearing t-shirts and casual everyday wear, good quality, sexy under things will give you that feeling of femininity and seductiveness. That feeling will also shine through in your behavior and in your walk.

Keep your posture straight and aim to walk smoothly, effortlessly, and with GRACE. Never forget lovely, as a feminine and seductive woman, you need to keep your poise and cool demeanor at all times.

Keep smiling and making brief eye contact with your man/men. Listen to your voice and try to make it sound more whispery and seductive.
Mind your diction dove, and form a habit of correctness and elegance in conversation.

A feminine and seductive woman takes great care to speak grammatically and correctly, and to pronounce her words properly. Furthermore, a woman of substance never has recourse for slang or vulgar aphorisms!

Work on your feminine grace and confidence. A woman's fortune is frequently decided by the way she carries herself, and her address. Moreover, if her composure and voice show confidence, and are pleasing, a man will surmise that she's a woman of MERIT.

However, if a woman's awkward and ungraceful, men won't respond favorably to her, and may be prejudiced against her, even if they don't intend to be.

The most seductive women know what their best points are - and are able to PLAY them up and use them - to their best advantage. They also know how to minimize their weaker points and balance them out with self-improvement! And finally doll, the most seductive women are always well-groomed and smell fresh and lovely at all times.

Much love,

Melina xxx

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Friday, April 29, 2011

Should a Feminine Woman Drink Alcohol? Alcohol and Femininity

Occasional or moderate drinking does have its place in life.
Admittedly, I do enjoy an occasional drop of red; Merlot, Cabernet Sauvignon, Pinot Noir.... mmmm!

In addition, there's no primitive tribe in this world that hasn't been without its fermented potion of some sort. The Bible tells us; “Drink your wine with a merry heart.” And the Apostle Paul told Timothy that he should drink a little wine for his stomach's sake.

Alcohol can help with the jaded appetite and add to the gaiety and ease of social gatherings (by releasing us from shyness or tension.)

However dove, alcohol is something that a feminine woman needs to handle WELL, and should be drunk for occasional enjoyment (and to break the ice at a party if necessary.)

But NOT so that it breaks down every reservation - and promotes an orgy!

I'll also add; the host who insistently plies his guests with double shots until they're staggering, not only reveals his ignorance, but his total indifference concerning their welfare.

What happens to them once they leave his house will be of no concern to him. And if a car or a marriage cracks up in the alcoholic haze that follows, hey, that's their business!

Sometimes a woman, who's usually quite the lady,
will be so sure of her usual self, that she'll think; "Just for fun, I'll have ONE more drink. I can handle it." She has no intention of getting drunk either - or to end up staggering around while slurring nonsensically!

Furthermore, she may take the extra drink just to prove to her companions of the moment that she's a good sport. But invariably, one extra drink will lead to another, and the effect of the alcohol (plus the persuasion of her companions,) not only leads her into making a complete FOOL of herself - but into a sordid escapade.

In spite of her having been so SURE of herself!

In addition, most men practiced in the seamier side of seduction, know from experience that if a woman is given enough alcohol, it's only a matter of TIME before she becomes amenable.

There's a point when a woman who's drinking will be taken beyond her capacity to think straight - and exert will power. Whether it's at the third drink or the sixth, the point of NO return is always there, as it is for a man.

Sometimes a woman is coaxed into heavy drinking by her boyfriend. Because the boyfriend is addicted to alcohol, he wants to share the guilt by involving his girlfriend in his drinking sprees.

Many women have confided in a friend something along the lines of; 'I never drank much until my boyfriend
kept insisting. He'd call me a bad sport and a wet blanket unless I drank."

In addition cupcake, the incidence of unplanned pregnancies while under the influence of
excess alcohol is GREAT. That's because both men and women lack caution when they've had too much to drink.

Tragically, women who are prone to drinking often admit to two or three abortions (saying that they had to terminate the pregnancies because they happened under the influence and the affect of alcohol.)

However, the feminine and intelligent woman will AVOID being drawn
(under the influence of alcohol,) into these situations. She'll also avoid the so-called 'drinking crowd.'

You know the crowd I'm talking about doll, the one filled with singles and couples who whoop it up every Saturday night! In a combination of alcohol and amorousness.

Around midnight, there will be arms around waists, silly exchanges, and "Phil, you don't mind if I give your pretty wife a little kiss, do you?" And Phil may mind actually, but it's all in the spirit of 'harmless alcoholic fun!'

He probably won't want to spoil the party either, but may possibly seek out the other man's wife and sleep with her - in retaliation.

The whole situation of the heavy-drinking crowd is always an unhealthy one dove. The mixture of intoxicated singles and couples invariably creates an erotically charged atmosphere - that invites infidelities.

BEWARE of becoming a part of one.

In addition, bored, middle-aged or unhappily married couples who drink alcohol to amuse themselves will often victimize other couples. There was one such couple who made it a practice of inviting other couples over on weekends, plying them with drinks, and deliberately juggling the sleeping arrangements so that infidelities occurred.

How charming *sarcasm*

Furthermore, a feminine woman
who wants to STAY married will forgo this type of invitation.

Then there's the "broad-minded" couples who
take pride in their tolerance of each others bouts of drinking and spouse-swapping. They start off with the idea that since they're both so alike, they can handle the situation.

Ultimately, they find they can't take it. They either end in
the divorce court or in the psychiatrist's office!

As a feminine and seductive woman, SELF-DECEPTION is definitely something that you need to be
beware of. Moreover....

You can pretend to yourself that when you go to a dinner party or to the local tavern - downing one glass of alcohol after another - that you can handle yourself and it won't lead to regret.

You can decide in advance that getting drunk won't make a difference in a quality man's attitude toward you.

Or you can get REAL and know that;

1. When a certain type of man sees a woman drunk and alone, his first thought is going to be of sex.

2. When a high caliber man sees a woman drunk and alone, he'll be thinking; "She'll be picked up, eventually."

However dove, if you're thinking clearly, and have observed some other woman going through the same performance, you'll KNOW what I'm talking about!

Now, let me ask you a question; do you think that a man or woman who drinks often is
happy, content and at ease with their world?

No! They drink because they're frightened, hostile and/or guilty towards something in it. They feel threatened. And only a psychiatrist can try to uncover the basic hostility, fear, guilt - and to try to probe into the unhappiness to find its source.

As for the girlfriend or wife who makes a PRACTICE of getting drunk - there are several
reasons for her actions;

1. She hates.

2. She wants the world to know she's unhappy.

3. She's punishing her boyfriend/husband while making an exhibition of herself.

As for the man who chronically grieves his wife or partner with a drunken performance at social gatherings, he's not acting out in blissful ignorance. He knows it is hurting her. For whatever reason, he WANTS it to hurt her (more about men who drink excessively later.)

In addition, the element of SELFISHNESS is always present in a chronic drinker's character. And in their determination to get attention (at whatever cost,
discomfort or embarrassment to those around them.)

Now, what about the men and women who are
successfully and happily married?

They DON'T habitually drink to excess.

And b
efore I go to post this dove, I'd like to say this to you if you're currently tempted to forget or ease your troubles via the alcohol route;

No matter what the frustration, money problem, disappointment in
in love, grief over loss.... ALCOHOL is never the answer! And if you yearn to escape in alcohol, you're maladjusted.

Furthermore, 'drowning your sorrows' doesn't work, and is a neurotic method of trying to run away from a problem rather than SOLVE it. Besides, soaking any problem in alcohol only intensifies and aggravates it, and leaves you with steadily decreasing ability to clear it up.

Finally I'd like to say that alcohol (excess) and femininity don't mix, and drunkenness is so ANTI-SEDUCTIVE and unfeminine!!

I do hope you enjoyed my article; 'Should a Feminine Woman Drink Alcohol? Alcohol and Femininity.' I'd love to hear your comments and experiences with this!

Much Love,
Melina xxx

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